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How do you cut a wedding list? Our wedding is growing out of control with family and friends. As much as we would like to invite them all we just can't and we don't know how to cut them from the list. The hardest part is that most of people being invited are families, so if we cut one person and the other is invited, there might be issues later on. Does anyone have any suggestions?

How do i word my wedding list? Hi all, how would you word my wedding list? We've been living together for ages and have everything we want. As bad as it sounds we don't need anything other than dollars for the honeymoon and cash for home improvements! how do you say that on a wedding list without sounding like a money grabber? In these times we don't even expect a gift but a few people have asked. Any help would be much appreciated because i don't know what to say!

how do I plan my wedding list? I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas of how to make a list of people to invite to my wedding. It hasn't been an easy task I'm thinking of inviting 300 people.

How many times a year does the Argos catalogue change? Want to make Wedding List? I want to make a wedding list for my wedding on 10th October 2009, and I would like to use the Argos Wedding List online. Will the catalogue change again before 10th October? I know its just changed at the weekend. Thanks

How do you create an online wedding list? I want to create a gift list online...

Is it ever NOT acceptable to put details of your wedding list on invitations? Does anyone think that it is rude to put wedding list details on the invites? are you all american?! i have never received an invitiation without the wedding list/bridal registry information on it!!

Can you make me a wedding list please? I seem to think i have forgotten some think please help i need a list of stuff to do/buy from venue to shoes thanks

I have been invited to a wedding and I am looking for the couple's wedding list at Argos how to log on to site I need to get to Argos Store site to place an order for a wedding present how do I get to the site?

Has anybody used Zankyou for their "virtual" wedding list? I came across this website www.zankyou.com that allows you to do your virtual wedding list accessible from all countries. I think it's a really cool idea and will suit me perfectly, but I want to see if anybody has used and what experience they had. Thanks!

Things people help with @ wedding - list in program? Do you list the ushers and readers in the wedding program? Are there any other "jobs" you can ask people to do and do you list them in the program? And do you list relationships in the program? Example: Maid of Honor: Jane Doe, Cousin of Bride etc etc etc and we are having programs so you won't talk me out of it.

I have 222 people on my wedding list but I've got to get it down to 200.? I took it from 250 to 222 people but its getting hard for me to do further cuts to get to 200. I'm planning on doing RSVP. On average, how many people said no to your wedding? Ps. I added a +1 for every guest for a date and added children for those who have children.

Wedding gift list? We are getting married abroad in November and a small group of friends & family are coming. How far in advance do you really need to arrange a wedding list. I have heard from places like Debenhams that about a year is the right time, but surely half the stock won't be there by the time it people choose to buy gifts. Also, is it ok to have a wedding gift list if getting married abroad? We are only doing one in case people want to get us a small gift, but we won't be sending cards out to people to tell them about it.

wedding list - things to do? i need a list of everything that needs to be done in a wedding bridesmaids dresses flowers ring colour/theme........?

wedding list question....? Im doing my wedding gift list and just want to know how you usually give them out... do you put them in with invitations? and is it actually called a wedding list? also, what sort of items to you ask for... anything? I know its only just to give people an idea if what to buy you but it seems cheeky.

pre-wedding list ideas??? my fiance and I are getting married in two years. Neither of us has been maried before, and I'm trying to make a list of things we need to do over the next two years. I don't know if it's a bit early to start planning, but I've always thought that it's never to early to plan something. Especially something as huge as our wedding :). So, even though it isn't for another two years, what would you suggest? I mean, any ideas of things we could look into, research, ect? ideas and advice would really be great. As I said, I'm trying to compile a list of things, so if would be so kind, write your own list on here for me, so I have an idea what would be good to look into. Thanks. any thoughts of lists you can come up with???

wedding with no wedding list? I'm invited to my cousin's wedding on June 2nd and they have no gift register. Does this mean I shouldn't take anything or just nothing big? I was thinking I'd take something for their baby (8 months old now) as it was not an overt 'wedding' gift yet I wouldn't turn up empty handed just in case. If I do turn up to see a table of gifts, is it bad form to drop off a gift the following week?

Wedding guest list issues? My fiancee and I decided our wedding list about a month ago and we thought we were all set! We asked his mom to send us a list just to make sure we got everyone and she sent a list of 65 additional people! Soooo we went through the list and crossed some people off that we dont know/dont want to attend and she freaked!!! Now even though we told her we have made our final decision (after trying to compromise with her) she is still trying to manipluate us into inviting all of HER friends to the wedding. No matter what we say she just wont let it go. What am i supposed to do the wedding is in less than 3 months and i need to purchase the invites? She is willing to pay for them but we just didnt want a huge wedding with a lot of people we would be meeting for the first time... we only crossed 6 couples off the list and thats because my fiancee has never met them... Part of the problem also is that i dont want her to badger/manipulate us into doing this and then start to think that every time she wants something from us she can do the same thing for the rest of our marriage...

wedding gift list inside wedding invitation, good idea or not? I have made the cards for my wedding and will be setting up a list at a local store. The problem is i feel that putting a card inside is like saying 'heres an invitation to our wedding, and this is what we want for a present' on the otherhand my partner said that it would be a good idea - as we may end up with lots of toasters. I just realy wanted to know what people think, or would do them selfs. Me and my partner have always struggled with money even though we both work - so the wedding list will be full of things that people could afford, rather than the expensive stuff. The most important thing is that our family and friends are their to share our special day with us. Many thanks

Wedding list -contribute to honeymoon? Hi, We are thinking about our wedding gift list and do not want to stick with the traditional ideas. I have heard that you can set up a gift list with you holiday company and your guests can logon and buy you an flight upgrade, a night out on holiday or an activity like para-sending. I know that there are companies that just do the lists but I was wondering if there are any travel companies that offer the holiday and the list? Many thanks for your help, Just to clear up a few points... We can afford a honeymoon that is not the point; the point was that it means that our guests have a way of sharing in our honeymoon as well as our wedding. Also, I did not really want a gift list for all of the reasons everyone has pointed out but have found that most people have complained as they are not sure what gift to buy. I think that this has convinced me to stick to my original plan and not have a list at all.

Can you give me wedding gift list help? OK so I want to firstly make it completely clear that I would never ever expect any presents whatsoever and I was always unsure about wedding lists. But people have mentioned its a good idea to prevent friends wasting money on duplicate presents. I have no intention of putting a wedding list in the invites or anything I just thought perhaps I should have one incase people ask. Now a lot of people I know arent into using the internet so I was wondering if you can get a paper/book style wedding gift list? I cant find one but I do remember years ago someone having one that was almost like a cheque book (you tear out the one you wish to buy for the couple). Has anyone seen these anywhere? Ideally we would prefer cash or gift cards I think most couples would- I even love the idea where people contribute to your honeymoon but I think most guests dont want us to know how much they have spent which I completely understand. So my question is... do these book style gift lists even exist? Any paper versions? I dont want to force people to use one shop or to use the internet... Thank you I know about argos gift lists etc but I don't want to tie people to using certain shops or anythin like that

Excluded from the Wedding List. Am I Wrong? I am getting married in June. I invited two of my favorite cousins and their Dad but I did not invite their Mother because she is not married to my Uncle anymore. More importantly, she was very mean to me when I was growing up. She has never showed me any kindness and I have no relationship with this women what so ever. She has disrespected my Mother and the wedding is at my Mother's house. The last time I saw this women was 9 years ago at my Brothers wedding but she didn't speak to me then. Now because I won't invite her, my cousins probably won't come and I look like the Bridezilla. Am I wrong for not wanting this person at my wedding. As far as i'm concerned she is not a part of my family. What would you do?

How do i nicely tell family members they can't keep adding people to the wedding list? Ok here is what is going on i am getting married next month and certain family members keep calling saying they have people to add to the guest list. Let me explain my fiance family keep calling saying they have other family members to add to list mind you this are people who were not invited in the first place. His grandmothers nephew and his great cousin's were not invited yes his great aunt and uncle were invited but not there kids. My great aunts and uncle on my side were not invited as i don't really know them and just wanted close family and friends to attend. I mean this is a month before the wedding and we have like 10 people who are coming that was not invited. His family says well they were planning on coming to Visit that weekend and no idea the wedding was that day so we just invited them. Ok fine maybe on or two but not ten we are already way over the limit as to how many people we wanted. But then i get yelled out for inviting a close friend who i just started to talk to again. How do i nicely tell them they can't invite anyone else i mean i have a month till the wedding and we keep having to add people when i called the tent company in the begging i just got enough table and chairs for people who were invited knowing that not all will show. Please help this is stressing me out it starting to feel like a family runuion for his family instead of a wedding.

Fiance doesn't like a very good friend of mine and wants to cut her off the wedding list. what should i do? My boyfriend and I have been planning a wedding for quite sometime, But when it comes to our guest list, he doesn't want a good family friend of mine involved in our wedding, not even as a guest. When i proposed to him to make it just a family event, he neglected the idea. What should i do, i do not want to hurt this friends feelings and i don't want my fiance to feel bad on our wedding day... PLEASE HELP My boyfriend and I have been planning a wedding for quite sometime, But when it comes to our guest list, he doesn't want a good family friend of mine involved in our wedding, not even as a guest. When i proposed to him to make it just a family event, he neglected the idea. What should i do, i do not want to hurt this friends feelings and i don't want my fiance to feel bad on our wedding day... She is kind of a flirt, and has cheated on her husband, and he thinks that she will rub off on me. He just doesnt like her way of being.

how do i word in wedding invations that i would like gifts vouchers? im getting married on 5th june been with my parnter 10yrs now 3 kids later...we have a house etc but would like to decorate so we thought it would be a good idea to ask wedding guest for a gift voucher.. for like B & Q!! instead of a wedding list for towels bed sets plates etc etc just dont no how to word it with invations xx

Wedding list and forgotten friends - should we invite them? We are getting married next year and one thing that has really been causing us some concern is whether we should invite friends of ours that haven't been making any effort to keep in touch with us. These particularly are people I have known for a long time, but in more recent years, have not been reciprocating much in the way of maintaining our friendship. It is a tricky one and I feel like we are stuck between a rock and a hard place. If we do invite them, then I am wondering why they are there (and whether they deserve to be there). But if we do not invite them, then the friendship is over for sure - plus a lot of them are connected (including the ones I do want to invite) and tongues will wag. We are having a smallish wedding so need to be selective about who we invite. It is just that some of my oldest "friends" haven't been behaving as what I would consider friends. For example, they rarely contact us and it is always us that make the first move. Any advice welcome! Just keen to hear some perspective on this and whether anyone else has the same problem.

wedding guest list issues...help please!!? my fiance' and I are coming up with our wedding list..we have 180 slots we can feed at the reception..the only problem is we have big families and a lot of them will be disappointed their not invited..Now the ceremony held at the church can hold up to 300 guests..should we invite the people who can come to the reception to the wedding only to avoid conflict or should we invite all our friends and family to the ceremony and just politely let them know they can't come to the reception so they can still see us get married ? I'm sure many of you have been in the same situation..how did you handle it?? thanks for your responses in advance..

How do I respond to this one for my wedding list??? Okay so I had this friend that was pretty close up until recently. To make a VERY long story short, we just don't talk anymore. Plain and simple. We may email a few time, maybe a forwarded email or something but that is it. Originally she was supposed to be in the bridal party but never came to any of the endless fittings / dress selection dates. Needless to say she isn't in the wedding party and has asked me twice if she is invited to the wedding. She isn't. So how do I respond to her without being nasty? I was thinking of something short, simple and sweet but can't find the right words. I don't have any hard feelings towards her and wish her the best, but I think it's time for us to go our separate ways. Oh I didn't cut her from the wedding party... That was strictly her decision.

when going to an evening do of a wedding? how much money are you expected to give as a wedding present? this couple have no wedding list, arent even good friends, i only know them through work an havent been invited all day just to the evening, what do you think is the best amount?

Cut from the wedding list? I have a good friend that I've kept in touch with over the past few years. She got engaged last year, and I was very happy for her. At the time, she sent me an email asking my husband and myself to "save the date" of her wedding. My husband and I both rearranged our work and vacation schedules to make sure we could make it (not an easy thing for both of us to coordinate). However, ten months later, we did not receive an invitation, phone call, or any further information and the wedding date passed. Her wedding went off without a hitch, but clearly we were de-invited. It's been two months since her wedding, and she just called me again like nothing has happened to pick up where we left off. How should I handle this? Should I continue the friendship, or is this a fly-by-night friend?

How can I handle this wedding guest without being rude? I'm having a small wedding of 90 people. The vendor won't fit more than 100 but I'm stopping at 90 because I don't want to be cramped. The 90 people are family or closest friends. We are not doing a wedding where everyone gets to add their own guest list. A guy who has been to other family weddings of my fiance is known as my fiance's dad's single neighbor...since my fiance's dad didn't really know anyone coming to the wedding, we decided to invite the guy for a companion for fiance's dad. This guy never brought a date to the other weddings he's been at...and I don't even think he is seeing anyone. We did not say his name and guest on the invite, it was only his name. He responded that he was coming and on the card he wrote his name and GUEST. No name for the guest...just guest. First of all, he was only being invited for my fiance's dad, second, he never brought a guest before and if he even had any idea who he was bringing...he would have wrote a name. Finally....we didn't invite him and guest! He's just an old guy that likes to drink and probably hasn't had anyone in years! Whatever though...how do we tell him no guest when we have allowed other people on our wedding list to invite guests. I know I sound like a B but I wouldn't care if this was a bigger less personal wedding... Best way to go about this anyone?

Does anyone have any suggestions for wedding poems to ask for cash rather than a wedding list? I'm going to be getting married in Cyprus and there is an option for wedding guests to buy vouchers towards the wedding, does anyone have any ideas of how I can put this in a wedding invitation without seeming tacky/cheeky? I thought I would clarify a few things as it seems people are thinking I am doing this for my benefit 1 - I am only doing this as people keep asking what gifts to get and will not take nothing as an answer. 2 - I have already paid for the wedding if people purchase vouchers they buy them for things we have not chosen to have or to upgrade what we have already paid for. 3 - Guests flights and accommodationn for the wedding night has ben paid for by us Hope this clarifys why I am asking this question

does having a wedding gifts list appropriate? i mean, listing gifts that others should buy for you? is it appropriate to list all the things that you wish for as your wedding presents from others? its like asking others to buy specific presents for you. in the other hand, it could be helpful for others to find a prefect gift for your wedding. what do you think?

How do I invite a person to a wedding if I don't want them to bring a guest.? I'm trying to cut down my wedding list but I put +1 for lots of people but some of them, i'd prefer if they didn't bring a guest. I was planning on writing the invitations out to Mr Smith and Guest but would it be ok to not write "and guest". Besides won't the RSVP have a space for them to write how many will be attending?

How do you put together a wedding guest list? I'm getting married next year and my fiancee and I are trying to put together a wedding guest list. Now we've kind of got an idea of maximum numbers, but it's very difficult to know where to start and stop when it comes guest: school friends, work colleagues, family, sport friends, those whose weddings you went to, those who've been a part of your life before - but you don't see that often, and other friends...and we've both been blessed with heaps of those. So from those who've had a wedding before, what did you do?

How can I limit my wedding guest list? Ok well, We were wanting to get married at this really pretty garden place. Its very cheap only $300 and of course its gorgeous. The problem is that the limit is only 50 people and he comes from a large family and the guest list is around 65. Do you think we should just go somewhere else or somehow tell people that plus ones or non close relatives aren't invited. I would love to share this day with everyone but were not millionaires either. What could we do?

How do I get my family to butt out of my wedding guest list??? I am getting married in a month and when planning the guest list...had only 50 invitations to work with based on what my fiance and I can afford. We started with main family members (moms, dads, grandparents, aunts/uncles, and some cousins, and used the remainder for close friends. Now my family feels the need to upset me and critique the family members I did and didn't send an invite to. My fiance and I are paying for our own wedding so I think it's fair for us to invite who we want to spend the day with. Is this wrong of me to assume? My family brings along a lot of drama and I feel like my wedding day should be spent celebrating my fiance's and my relationship and committment....not arguing over distant relatives that didn't get an invitation. Ugh.

Do I include the little ones on the wedding guest list? This might seem like a silly question... When I give my caterer the number of people attending my wedding, do I include toddlers and baby's? I know most kids under two usually just share with parents if they eat at all. I know I sound really cheap right now but we are paying for most of the wedding ourselves and def need to find some places to pinch a few pennies.

What to buy as a wedding gift? I am going to two weddings over the next two weekends. The first is a massive affair and they have a wedding list so i have got them a prezzie. The other however is a very modest affair and as they already have a home together they do not NEED anything. The bride (who is a very close friend) keeps insisting she doesn't want me to get her anyrthing, but i would really like to get her something!!!! She is an ex-naval wren, and has a wicked sense of humour! I dont wanna get her gift vouchers? or anything for the house or baby! Any thoughts??

I need help with our wedding guest list? My fiance' and I are writing our guest list for our upcoming wedding, and we have a budget for 100 people. If we invite everyone on our list including their kids, it will add up to 120-130. I would simply invite just adults, but how do I explain that when we both have kids from previous relationships and we both have younger siblings who we want there?

How do I shorten a wedding guest list? Large extended family with cousins and kids and so on that i am not close to, but that are ALL expecting an invite. If I invite all of them I cannot have the friends that I AM close to come. Is there a way to invite some cousins and not others if they are all brothers and sisters with many children each?

What to do about a destination wedding guest list? My fiancé and have been going back and forth on who to invite to our Destination Wedding, which will be next June. My fiancé is Canadian, and I am an American. He sent a heads up to his family a while ago to ask who would be able to come down to the States for the wedding and gave them a date. Most of them said it is very unlikely that they will make it. So, we decided to move our wedding to Myrtle Beach, about 12 hours from my hometown to get away from my family and because I love it there. We said we were going to only invite our close friends, parents, siblings, and grandparents. But now, I am feeling bad about not inviting my aunts, uncles, and cousins. Because in all honesty, I want my family there. However, I don't want to have my 40 or so relatives, and 10 or less of his, because we both feel that it would be awkward. I want to know what you all think of this situation and what you you would do or what you have done in this situation. We are not paying for the wedding, fyi. Btw, the wedding will be on the beach, and we probably won't be having a traditional reception - probably just all going out to supper somewhere. We plan on having a reception at my home for the people who can't make it (if we keep it small), and having a reception for his family up in Canada, if we can get his whole family together... they don't all live very close to one another.

Need help with wedding guest list, how do I narrow it down? I have narrowed down to groups. Family-ok with Close friends-ok with Co-workers-need help should I invite all 11 with spouses or the ones that I associate with outside of work? I feel bad about picking and choosing and leaving some out. Church family-need help I dont associate with all of the members( about 40) but I do know them, I was going there since I was a baby. But people are expecting to attend.

Does Best Buy notify you when an item has been purchased from your wedding wish list? I logged into Best Buy's website and when I went to our wishlist, it said "the following item is no longer available and has been removed from your wish list". Does this mean someone purchased it or does it mean that Best Buy stopped carrying the item for sale? It was a digital camera and I can't quite remember the exact specs, so I can't check online to see if Best Buy still sells it. Does Best Buy email you when an item has been purchased from your wish list?

Weddings!!! Im looking for some help with a list of stuff i have to do? Basically i am not one of those people who has thought about how i would like my wedding to be!! I now find my self in a position where i am getting married!!! which is very exciting but i am also very worried as i haven't a clue what i need to do. I would love to hear from all of you so i can put together a wedding list :) Many thanks xx

Do you think wedding lists are a bit cheeky? I do, you used to just be grateful for what you were given, ok you maybe got two toasters, but I think lists put pressure on people.

What do I get for the wedding!! PLEASEEEE HELP! IT'S TOMORROWW!!? heyy! i'm invited to a wedding, the couple have not put a wedding list anywhere and claimed that all gifts would go to charity.... what can i get?? something appropriate for a wedding and to go to charity!! I can't get milk and bed sheets that's too tacky for a wedding gift, and i can't get a crystal vase or anything, thts useless for charity!! PLEASE help!!!

Wedding Lists? We're trying to sort out our wedding invitation list, while we want as many people there as we can, we are both pretty poor and our parents cannot help financially for the wedding. Would it be bad form to invite only the friends we know, without their wives, boyfirend/partners etc? At £25 per head, it seems a bit too much for us to pay for some food for someone we dont know. Im thinking of people like work colleugues and wider friends who's partners we have never met, not family members. I should say, we're having and afternoon tea rather than sit down meal: sandwiches, cakes, tea/coffee, victorian china cups and saucers, cake stands, some wine, champaigne for toasting. The whole event is only going on until 7pm at the latest. So what do you think? Perhaps we just shouldnt invite them at all then?

Alternatives to wedding lists? My bride to be and I have lived together for some time. We have everything that we need and so dont want a wedding list. There are only so many tea towels you can use! We just want, if anything, contributions to our honeymoon. It seems stupidly rude to just ask people for money or to get them to send cheques. Does anyone know of an alternative? Someway of buying us airmiles perhaps? Many thanks

Planning a wedding help? What do I need to have a complete wedding? List..steps..ect

I need to make some wedding gift list cards!? I need to make some wedding gift list cards - like the ones you get from John Lewis, etc - for the bride andgroom to put in with their invitations, but I have no idea what he wording should be! Please can someone help!!!! What do they have written on them? We have made up our own wedding list from different retailers, home buying products, tupperware etc... and a friend is holding it for us. I need to let the guests know who to contact if they want to buy us a gift... but I don't know what to say! HELP!

What do you think about Royal Wedding Guest List? Who would you add to the invited people?Who would you reject from the list of invited? Share your opinions,as the wedding is an unique event http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1375329/The-official-royal-wedding-guest-list-revealed-Kate-asks-2-ex-loves---William-invites-4.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1375328/The-Transylvanian-count-Nazis-nephew-Kazakh-tycoon-The-colourful-guests-Charles-invited-Palace.html

Wedding DO NOT PLAY music list? I've been going to a bunch of weddings lately, and mine is going to be in June. I'm making a Do-not-play list so people don't have to hear the same songs they hear at every other wedding. Here's what I have so far: The Isley Brother - Shout KC & The Sunshine Band - Celebration Van Morrison - Brown Eyed Girl Any Neil Diamond, any BeeGees Abba - Dancing Queen Bob Seger - Old Time Rock n Roll B52s - Love Shack Commodores - Brick House Any other suggestions to keep our guests from running screaming from the wedding? I'm 25 years old, if that helps in any way. Read the question again. WHAT NOT TO PLAY In response to: "My question is why do you want all of these on your do-not-play list? Just because they're played at other weddings?" Because they are lame. I'm not banning all songs because they're old. I'm just wanting to play something that you don't hear at EVERY SINGLE wedding. How often do you hear Ray Charles or Stevie Wonder at a wedding? Ha, I guess "Hit the Road Jack" is pretty overplayed too. We were thinking about doing "Nighttime is the Right Time" as the intro song. I'm sucking the fun out of the wedding? No, that's exactly my point. I want it to be FUN, and not to SUCK.

What are your wedding resolutions?? (List of MUST do's for the big day!)? I began to think that I'd like to keep a regimen....focus on eating better, drinking more water, being good to my skin....is/are there things that you'd like to make sure you do before your big day? How are you preparing (minus the traditional planning) yourself for walking down the aisle? :)

Advice on who to invite to our wedding...? Could anyone share their experiences/opinions on these few things? I feel like our wedding list is getting too high but I'm not sure where the wiggle room is... Did you invite kids to your wedding or have it adults only, and what would you recommend? Is it acceptable to invite some kids and not others? Is it always necessary to include "& Guest" on invitations to singles? Did you try to have the number of guests from each side of the family (bride and groom) be as equal as possible? Thanks very much!

Do you think this is a good wedding present list for Hermione & I? Red vines Red vines Champagne Red vines Chocolate Money Red vines Pringles RED VINES Money And other stuff too. The list so far: All the HP crew (You know who you are!) And do YOU want to come? Gandalf the Grey & Snesha (or however you spell it :D) Are also invited. I WAS LOOKING EVERYWHERE FOR YOU GANDALF! :D We are having a buffet! XD

Simple Wedding TO DO list? My Fiance and I are planning a simple wedding for July 9th at a local venue we are having maybe 15 people there. I have a dress, I am making my own flower boque and boutineres which can't be done until the day before the wedding, I am getting my hair, nails etc. done the day of the wedding with my maid of honor, I have a venue and plans to go out to dinner with attendees after the ceremony. I have friend of the family to do photography and invitations are ordered. I feel like I am forgetting something? What else is there to do??

how do you make a wedding wish list on maplestory? me and my bf are getting married on there, we have the coupon, we're trying to make the reservations, but we dont know how to make the wish list, this window pops up with spaces for u to fill in, can u tell me what u do with it?

What should I do about this wedding guest list stuff? My fiance's family is wanting to invite about 12 more people than they were allotted. They said they would pay for the overage. but this was supposed to be an intimate wedding... and these people are more close to his sister and mom than he and I. I feel like me asking them to take them out is just asking for trouble. My fiance doesn't even mind or care but I sort of feel like it's not fair. They gave me a list once then gave me the addresses later. The addresses had people added to it... she said she doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I know she wants to invite her friends that invited my fiance and I but you know what? They aren't even close to us and the guy is kind of a jerk! I have a feeling that there's not much I can do. I think what bugs me is friends say "you need to take back control!" but is that REALLY how it is? Control? Deep down I feel like it might be best to not have a conflict and they offered to pay for the overage. But it's sort of hurtful in a way. I feel like at the same time, at the end of the day we'll be married at least. But the way I am, I think I'm going to be upset that these people we're not close to are there and I really wanted intimate. I am worried because the way I am is I get upset easily... I worry I'll be in a sour mood (not a bridezilla mood, just a sour mood inside) because of it, and that's silly. I just want to move past this, what should I do? I have heard the guest list is the hardest, is this a normal, average, common problem or what? "This is why I didn't do a big wedding...all this crap and aggravation for nothing!" this is what I wanted... but it seems to be unavoidable in my situation :-( I was upset and expressed this to him but then just told him whatever... upset but whatever. I hope that's ok, I suppose it could be worse? :-|

What do you think a TRUE redneck should be like? My friend and I we're watching my bid redneck wedding! List everything you'd expect to see in a redneck!

What is the average percentage of a wedding guest list that doesn't come? I'm coordinating a wedding in a room with a maximum capacity for 150 people. She and her groom are inviting 180 people and she is "freaking out" that all 180 are going to show up. I've tried to explain what statistics say, but she's not listening. Does anyone have hard fact evidence of what percentage will RSVP no?

Help! wedding shower etiquette!!? what's the etiquette here? It's my first and hopefully only marriage. Do i have to invite all females on wedding list?? I just dont want my friend to have to pay too much here... I wanted small but I dont know if that's possible without leaving people out and then feeling bad... help!! I know I am not inviting... DUH... but how is my friend supposed to know WHO to invite if I dont give a list of addresses??

I quit my job to work from home and get our new home organized. My to do list is so long I'm paralyzed! HELP!? I have a wedding to plan for August, a real estate career to get off the ground, a fitness regime to begin, a final real estate course to study for a house that needs cleaning, decorating and mending from top to bottom. Plus daily things like cooking and cleaning... this is all new to me. First home, first time with a truely "open" schedule... I don't know where to begin :( All this opportunity and I can't get started... feeling like a failure... advice welcome. I've always been a working girl, kicking butt at my job, but now without a real "job" and a tonne of things on my chore list I just don't know where to begin. I had cleaning ladies my whole life... and nannies... I just don't know how to do this stuff!!! But I want to learn!!

Future Mother in Law Wedding problem? I apologize for the length of this question, I appreciate your advice. My fiance and I decided to have a very small (only close friends and close family) destination wedding and then throw a catered party (basically the reception) at my parent's house when we get back for everyone else. I have alot of friends and family, but am only inviting those family members I am extremely close to and my best friends. Everyone on my side of the family has been very supportive of this decision and those who I could not invite to the wedding are excited for the reception. When I asked my future MIL for her list- I was honestly expecting very few people as my fiance's parents barely speak to most of their relatives and they have much less family and friends than I do. I told her it was going to be a small private ceremony but she could feel free to invite many more people to the reception at my parents place. So she sends me this outrageous wedding list including second cousins, neighbors, and people she does not even speak with. I was completely confused and thought it was the list for the reception- but no it was for the wedding. When I told her that the list was just too big she started to cry saying I was going to cause drama in her family and asking me why I could not just have a large wedding close to home. I promptly gave the phone to my fiance who calmly explained to her that she needed to narrow down her list as my fiance and I (and my parents) are the ones who are paying for the wedding. He told her if she needed to have more people there- she could pay for it - which she declined to do. She has since sent me emails explaining why each person she listed including great aunt marsha who my fiance has never met in his life needs to be invited! She told me they would send great gifts. I explained to her that I myself was not inviting my neighbors, second cousins, etc. and couldn't care less about the gifts (we live in a small condo and don't need anything). She again said that I did not understand what drama and mess this would cause with her family by not inviting everyone on her list. Has anyone else been in this situation before? If so how did you handle it? Should I bite the bullet and invite all these strangers? Do I let my fiance handle her? Help please....

Wedding gift help? Hey x my Dad and Step mums wedding is on the 31st may so next saturday and i havent yet got them a gift! but cannot think of what to buy they do have a wedding list but its all too expensive as i am only 14 :P so my budget really is 40 or under i want to get them something different not like plates or candles , lol so please help me to think thankyou x :D p.s is you could find anything on an english website, that would be great help thank you xx

Wedding in hell!? Hey I'm thinking of having a wedding of about 100-150 my parents want like 400 people cuz they know so many people!! They want to invite everyone! It's horrible and out of my control. I don't mean to sound ungrateful but the wedding list has reached sky high. I don't even know about 50% of the people. And a few on the list do not like me! This is horrible. What can I do without hurting my parent's feelings? law http://www.skool.com

Do you think it is right to make a wedding gift list? My girlfriend and I are getting married next year and she would like to compile a list of items that we can publish for guests to read and then leave at a shop for people to buy. I really hate the idea but hear that it's quite popular. What are people's thoughts about this?

pros and cons about asking for money at your wedding? Well, you can see from my last question that my fiancee and I are going to marry next year and we decided no to have a wedding list. After a controversial discussion on this subject I was interested in the reasons as to why it is such a taboo in Britain to put a little, polite note in the envelope WITH the invitation to say that you appreciate monetary gifts (without using the word money-please see my last question). The reason why we decided to do so is: 1. We really don't have much money at all and we received already a lot of little practical gifts on our engagement. And we have already most of the little things. So we really save up for the bigger things. Our wedding won't cost much but it is a lot of money for us. But as we would like our friends to be part of our wedding we decided to have a proper reception. 2. I asked around and everyone said, they think it's a very good idea so I was very surprised about your reaction. Also, in my culture (I am German) it is very common to "ask" for money. There will be German guests so they won't think it's impolite. The rest of the people in my community doesn't mind the idea at all because they know us. 3. I don't want people to spend too much money on ordinary things. For example: If I make a wedding list and someone decides to buy us a tin opener, most people won't go for the 1 pound version but spend 10 pound. I would be better off with 5 pound cash and than I go and buy a tin opener for 1 pound and save the rest for a sofa or a bed. So both sides will benefit from this.I don't want people to go into debt for us (which is also impolite) because they can only spend money on their credit card and can't give cash. I'd rather forgo a gift altogether. 4.My parents are not involved with the wedding preperation at all as they live in Germany and we don't have the bestest of relationships. Most people don't know my fiancees parents so they (the guests) will be grateful (so they say) if they don't have to ring around and ask whether there is a wedding list or not. And I think a little polite note is much better than being told by the parents that we're better off with money - what on earth is the difference? 4. If I really put on a list what we need it would be a washing machine and furniture - Well, THAT is impolite. 5. Why does british etiquette never make sense? Sometimes I think it's only about tradition, not a about logic. 6. If you think this method is impolite, how impolite is it to DEMAND that someone spends half a fortune to make it able for you to be part of a nice wedding but not to give anything? If someone can't afford to give anything, I don't have a problem with this - and they won't be able to buy a present either anyway. But if they are my friends (which is the case with all of the people I invited) they will completely understand my situation and I will completely understand their situation. The first sentence in my note is completely sincere and honest. I do NOT expect anything but please make it easy for both of us if you want to give something. My flatmate eg asked me what if she has no money and if she could make something nice for me - something personal. And I am more than happy with this. People who know us and love us won't be offended and everyone I asked so far actually preferred giving money... One of my friends (and even my fiancee) reacted the same way you did, and then I explained my reasons for this. Now they understand and all my friends agree with this. So, is it still impolite?

Wedding HELL...plz help? Hey I always imagined a small wedding of about 150-200 people but my parents are like those people that know everyone. i'm an only child and the youngest in my family from both sides so this wedding is going to be on a grand scale. My parents are inviting everyone they know as well as people who hate me. It's horrible and out of my control. I don't mean to sound ungrateful but the wedding list has reached sky high. I don't even know about 75% of the people and of those invited some actually really dislike me and yet they are going to come to my wedding. What should i do? I don't wanna hurt my parents feeling but i want a small, memorable and intimate wedding not a circus. I know they always wanted this but it's my day too. Please help.....

How can I get my in-laws to do the right things for our wedding? My in-laws are giving me a shower (which I am very grateful for). Although I thought they went a bit overboard with the guest list, I realize it wasn't my choice and just let them do their thing. I did, however, make sure they received a copy of the wedding guest list and told them to be sure they don't invite anyone they didn't have invited to the wedding. Turns out, the shower invites are already mailed and they did invite 2 people to the shower who were not invited to the wedding...they say they should have been on the wedding list. I made sure to have them check the wedding list before invites went out and asked them many times if they were forgetting anyone. I was given the 'go ahead' to mail wedding invites...and those two were not on my list. They aren't immediate family and I've never heard their names or met them in 7 years...they're his dead grandpa's cousin's children (we think). What would you do about this??? Yes, two people aren't that big of a deal (but it really translates to 4 people with their guests...that's $130 added to the caterer). And...this isn't the first thing like this that's been an issue. I fought with them about my wedding party, and about having their whole family at the rehearsal dinner and none of mine.

Dream about a wedding? I dreamt that my brother was invited to my uncle's wedding and he told me about it and I was getting ready and him and one of my friends at school joined me, but she was my brothers date and they would never go out in a million years. And while I was putting on mascara, she wanted to help me to put it on right, but I didn't want her to help me. Then I found out that I wasn't invited to the wedding. And I had this baby in the room with me, and when the baby accidently fell off the bed, my friend tried to take it, to make it stop crying, but I didn't want her to take the baby from me, and then I just held the baby closer and it stopped crying. Then my mother started looking through a wedding list, and she wanted to call my uncle and ask why I wasn't invited, but she would never do something like this in real life, she would say it's my fight. I felt really sad in my dream, what could it mean? thanks

Are children a part of a wedding list head count? I'm making up my wedding guest list, but I have several nieces and nephews between the ages of 9 months-16 years old. Are they considered in the head count, or is it strictly adults (their parents)? Thanks! Thanks everyone! I will count the lil' ones. And just make sure the caterer and venue knows how many kids and how old they are. Thanks!

Problems with Next internet and telephone wedding list? Anyone else having this problem? When you order a gift off the Next wedding list, there is no longer the option to have it sent to the delivery address, due to the Data Protection Act (acording to Next). It now has to go to the guest's address. This was not explained before the list was compiled. 300 invitations have been sent to guests and we are just finding out that Next will not deliver to the Bride & Groom's address. The wedding is 5 weeks away, so unless we contact each guest to advise them, they have to bring the gift themselves, unless of course they are not coming to the wedding! What a company. Debenhams , although not divulging the delivery address, automatically deliver to the Bride and Groom

Is there a wedding check list some where on the net? I'm planning a renew wedding for my wife & I. Our first wedding was in a court house. So I'm new at this whole thing. I want it to be her dream wedding, I have been taking notes & all. But I need a list to make sure I get every thing right. Can you help me?

Good ways to narrow down the wedding guest list? I recently got engaged and although the wedding is quite far off, I have been having thoughts about who will be invited. I'd like to have a medium sized wedding - and will definitely need help in narrowing down the guest list. Anyone have any rules they lived by?

Can someone list different wedding themes for me? Need just a list of different themes you could use at a wedding. In addition to that, could you have a easter wedding and if so what type of theme would it be? Also, what about christmas weddings?

How would you suggest cutting a "long list" of wedding invites down? My Fiance and I are getting ready to start outlining out wedding plans and we are starting with a guest list. We want a guest list of roughly 100 people. Not real small and not big at all. So we want to make our guest list and then start chopping away. How is the most gentle way to do this that will be least likely to offend our parents about relatives that we aren't close to.

what are some items on a wedding budget list? heyy, my sister is getting married and i am helping her. i need help to help her. lets say you were at her wedding what are some things you would love to have. be realistic people. what are somethings that really make you go "wow" lol. (favors, entertainment, blah blah blah. lol) and btw ther is no budget. so just list some things you like. xoxoxoxoxo.

Can somebody give me a list of wedding songs? My cousin is getting married and i'm helping her plan her wedding. I thought of a few, but i need a nice long playlist of wedding or love songs. Old school, new school, it doesn't matter. Please give a list of artists or song titles that i could use. I will give the best answer to whoever is the most original and unique. =) Thank You!

What is a good site that has a comprehensive list of wedding supplies, dos and don'ts, etc.? I would like a site someone has actually used successfully to plan their wedding. I really haven't been to a lot of weddings and know I will leave something crucial out. I need something that lists everything from what you need for apparel (I can see myself forgetting a garter), to the reception (a box for cards) to a list of what roles there are (ushers, readers, MC). Thank you all for sharing your expertise! Maybe I should have added I am Canadian so a site that lists items available in Canada, etc. would be very helpful.

Ideas for classic books to put on a wedding list? What favourite books would you recommend? I'm thinking obvious classics like Pride and Prejudice but also quirky classics like Wind in the Willows.

What are the main tradtions of a Dutch wedding? Please list what ther wear and be specific.? What are the main tradtions of a Dutch wedding? Please list what ther wear and be specific.? List what they wear, or just list the things DUTCH wedding traditinoally do. THANKS!! Be specific please!!

How do I go about making a guest list for my wedding? I have quite a few questions that go with the broader question asked, so if you have any ideas, please answer! :-) I want a big wedding, so all of my family and his family are going to be invited, but my family is very large and his is very small. Will it be weird because I will have a lot of guests on my side and he wont? At what age should i allow the guests to bring a date? When making the guest list do I include dates and children?

What was your wedding song? list all of them if you can, need help picking one thanks? I really like R&B for my wedding songs but i open to anything. Let me know what songs you had.

Should people on our wedding guest list who have told us they can't attend still receive invitations? We just sent out save-the-dates for our wedding, and a few people have told us that they already know they can't come due to vacations they have planned. Should we still send them invitations? I feel bad not sending invitations because I feel like they deserve to get them even if they can't come, but by sending invitations I don't want it to look like we're asking for gifts or disregarding the fact that they told us they can't make it. Any advice on what the proper etiquette is would be appreciated - thanks!

How should I word a gift list card for a wedding? I am sending out a gift list number for Argos with me wedding invitations, but am unsure about how to word it! Any ideas?

Would it be inappropriate to list a deceased parent on a wedding program? How would it need to be worde? My fiances father passed away a long time ago. We want to list him on our wedding program but are unsure of the wording and if that is proper etiquett or not. any suggestions?

What gifts should we put on our wedding gift list? My fiancee and I are getting married in October, and rather than get a gift registry at an expensive department store, we have decided to make our own list and get our parents to take our guests enquiries. The problem is, all I can think of that we need is saucepans, Tupperware, a wok and maybe a good frying pan. Everyone says just to ask for money or gift vouchers, but I'd prefer not to. I would prefer actual gifts that have had thought put into them and that I can hand down to our children one day! My fiancee and I have lived together for about three years, so we have most household stuff, just not "good ones". Can anyone give me some examples of stuff we could put on there (in all price ranges)? I am just stumped for ideas! I SHOULD ADD: I live in Australia, so we only have a few department stores that do gift registries and we are both from non-wealthy families, so we don't want to have an in-store or online gift registry.

What is your highest priority on your wedding list? PS: Oh Dustin, lighten up! I am talking about the tangibles here. If people stop over analyzing, people would be a lot happier.

Destination wedding, small guest list, who do we invite to the bridal shower? My mom and future mother in-law have requested I put together invite lists for the showers they are each planning. We are getting married on Maui in August, and kept the invite list minimal. However, we are having a reception back home in October. Is it appropriate to extend the invite to people that are included in the reception, although they were not invited to the wedding? As untraditional as the destination wedding is, we still want to have some traditional aspects to other events.

Making my own wedding guest list sheet: ask for addresses? Instead of buying a wedding guest list book of which only the first page will be filled, I am making my own sheet for guests to sign and I will put this page in my wedding photo album later. My question: If I already know all my guest's addresses, should I ask for them again beside their names as is tradition in guest list books? or can I just ask for them to sign their names on the lines?

What can i take as a wedding gift to a couple that have no wedding list?

Write me a Makeup List for wedding? I need to make a list of things i will need to do my wedding day makeup. (moisturiser and tools as well) Help me out by writing me out a list of what you think i will need to get. Thankyou!

Anyone have ideas for wedding photographs to add to the list? Im making a list of photographs that i definitely want taken at the wedding so i am not disappointed. I feel like i might be missing some, but im not sure. Can any of you give me a list, then i can go through them and figure out which ones im forgetting? The wedding magazines only really give a basic list. Even some creative ideas would be nice.

need help compiling a list of wedding songs with good beats? hi. my uncle asked me to help him compile a list of songs to play at his wedding. he asked for them to have good beats :) i guess it's for the par-taying. so help please. rock, rnb, rap. whateverrrrrs good for dancing. but please think love-ish. haha

I need a wedding to do list, please help? My lovely girlfriend and I recently got engaged and are planning a wedding 2 years out, so probably fall 2010. Could I please get a list of things we should remember to do and when to accomplish them. Any help would be great

Is it proper to list adult children of the bride in the wedding announcement? Adult children were not in the wedding party but would like to list their names

Do i list the wedding parties name's on the Invitations? I have what i want on my wedding invitations, do i put on who is all in my wedding?

I need to create the perfect wedding play list for our reception. Any suggestions? What songs would you be sure to include? Thanks.

How to invite your B list to your wedding? My wedding is in 3 weeks and we received more NO's than anticipated. How do you go about inviting co-workers in such short notice.

Does anyone have a list of pre-wedding jobs or maybe a wedding planner checklist? I would like to do most of the planning myself and not employ a planner. This is my second marriage and also his. We have four months and at this stage no venue. Date set, ideas tossed around and a guest list made. Have viewed some dresses and spoke to a couple of celebrants. No bookings as yet. I feel there are lots of little things to organise but not sure where to start. Please help!!

What number of guests were on your wedding list?

When is the best time of year to list a wedding dress on ebay? I want to get the most traffic I can and I was thinking early spring for all the May and June weddings. Any ideas anyone?

Can you provide me the list of the cheap and best (wedding) function halls list in Hyderabad please? I am looking for the best (not expensive) wedding function hall in Hyderabad

Do you list a deceased parent in the order of service as part of the wedding party? Also, do I list my father's fiance in the wedding party? They are getting married two months after me.

Are there websites to help me create a wedding reception song list? I am getting married and a friend is going to play DJ. He needs a list of songs and artists we like. I was wondering if there is a website I can go to that would help with this. I have a list but know that there are ones that I am missing. A website with suggestions would be great. Or one where I can enter an artist and it brings up ones that are similar. Any impute would be great.

what would you put on a wedding registry list? i'm setting up mine, and as we already share a flat we don't need standard things (we have plates, pans, sheets....) so i've currently come up with an ice-cream maker, something we've always wanted!

What are some good songs to add to a wedding reception play list? We need some good dance songs and slow songs. The majority of my family are big country and western fans (not me so much, but I'd like to have some for them). No Rap, R&B or hip hop though.

what are the most important things on your wedding list? how advance should you plan for your wedding/ any helpful websites?

Where can I find a everything to do list for a wedding? I was recently proposed to and I only have...about 7-8 months to plan a wedding. I know it usually takes a while so I want to start doing the little things I can do now or at least start on. Is there a website that has a list of things u have to do/should do before a wedding????

trying to keep the wedding guest list down? i have a HUGE family and my fiance's family isnt as big. however, we are on a seriously tight budget and i am worried that feeding everyone will break us. how can i keep the guest list to just those family and freinds we are close to, so we dont go way over budget? i dont want to hurt anyones feelings by not inviting, and with our families, word gets around even if its not meant to.

alcohol list for a small wedding reception? I am having a small wedding and reception in my parents back yard. there will be maybe 20 guests. I want to have a little alcohol. Ehat do you think is a good small list of alcohol to have?

Is it appropriate to exclude some relatives from a wedding guest list? I have a large extended family. One family of cousins grew up far away; I met them only once. Am I obligated to include them or may I invited only those cousins I grew up with?

Wedding List? So my fiancee and I are planning to get married around August or September of this year. Someone told me it was bad luck to make a list of the people coming, so soon, but i mean i've seen people getting ready for a wedding even 1 year before the actual date. So is it bad luck??? lol i kno alot of people dont believe in this kind of stuff when your getting married i guess you get all nervous and want everything to be perfect.

i need a site for a good check list and possible another site for prices for wedding stuff.? please and thank you. like a site where i can find a check list for a NORMAL wedding.. i do not want a checklist for some extravagent famous people wedding. and also somewhere to find the approximate prices for the stuff.. but mostly the checklist would be appreciated. thank you so much.

Need help adding metal music to wedding reception song list? I have a list of music picked for my wedding, however my hubby-to-be LOVES metal, heavy metal, death metal, etc and I need some help with songs I can add to my list so he enjoys our reception too! I like metal too, but not as much as him, thats why its so hard for me to find songs that would be good to add to the list, I don't wanna freak out our guests but I want my hubby to be happy as well. Any song/artist suggestions will be highly appreciated!!!

Is Debenhams a good place for a wedding list?

What has been your experience with your wedding guest list? How many id you invite and how many actually? attended?

our wedding list keeps growing and growing? we started out with a limit of 60 guests now the guest list is up to 80 people! we cant cut anyone we have limited it to no kids or cousins we dont see. Its all grandparents, aunts, uncles, bros, sisters and good mates we see atleast 4 times a week. We didnt invite mates we see every now and then. Should we expect everyone to come? we dont really want a big wedding but its turning out that way

Excluded from the Wedding List Part 2? More to the Saga. When I first started planning my wedding, my Mother told me she would pay for the reception and that I could invite 100 people. My Father was supposed to give some money and to date he has not so I have had to keep my list to a bare minium only inviting people I am close too. Yesterday my Aunt who I have not seen in more than 25 years (would not know her if she came to my door right now) called my Mother and informed her that she was coming to the wedding. She was downright disrespectful to my Mother. My Mother told her nicely that she is not on the list and was not invited. Is has come to our attention that my Father who again, has not paid a dime is telling people that they can come to the wedding. Should I call my Father and have a talk with him or just keep turning people down that he feels the need to invite?

Setting up a play list for wedding reception? I have my songs but I am wondering how i should set it up. Like how many fast songs before you play another slow song. Things like that.

how to get a price list of wedding photographers in north carolina? I need a reasonable but affordable photographer for my wedding

How do you invite someone to the shower after the wedding? I had a very very small wedding that was just his family and less than 10 guests. Now some of the ladies from church (both of whom were invited to the ceremony) want to throw me an after-the-fact wedding shower. These two ladies are long time friends and watched (and helped) me grow up, and they asked me to compile a guest list for the shower. Who can I invite to this sort of event, without offending people because they weren't invited to the ceremony? I REALLY don't want it to seem like I am trolling for gifts. What do you guys think?

Has anybody used Zankyou for their "virtual" wedding list? I came across this website www.zankyou.com that allows you to do your virtual wedding list accessible from all countries. I think it's a really cool idea and will suit me perfectly, but I want to see if anybody has used and what experience they had. Thanks!

what r some normal things to put on a wedding registry list? when should u register for gifts. our wedding is in april of 09

I'm having a November wedding? Any ideas or at least a check list for wedding planning? Winter weddings can be just as good right? How do i start planning? I dont even know what colors i want yet. HELP

Can you help me with wedding check list? I'm not sure if I'm missing anything. I have centerpeices, cake topper, toasting glasses, rev & ceremony script, DJ and song list, invitations, transportation, dresses, ceremony and reception site, the food, photographer and decorations, baker guestbook but I feel ilike I'm forgetting something, and for all you jokers yes I have the groom

I am getting married in 4 months. Wedding list!!? I already have a fully furnished home. For my wedding list would it be nasty to ask for money instead of presents. If so how could i word this on my invitations? Thanks

can someone please suggest a list of wedding gifts under $100? I am having a hard time deciding what to give to my freind on her wedding...please help They are a couple in their late 20's and planning to move into a new apartment....if this helps

Do you know of any websites where you can sell your wedding dress besides ebay & craigs list? Please list any you know of. Thanks.

Wedding Guest List - who to invite? Hi All, Pondering over my guest list for my wedding: I am 27, and left school a while ago. Some old school friends I have loosly kept in contact with .. although we always proclaim our ever lasting love for each other even though our lives have taken us in seperate directions. Through to joys of facebook I have also recently come back in contact with some other school friends. My question to you is; even though I dont see much of them at all ... really ... could I or should I invite them to my wedding? I do love them. Although its only thanks to social networking sites that I have come back in contact with them. Im a bit perplexed as to where to draw the line. Ta. John! Cracking up! hahahaha.

Can someone please tell me a cheap way to have a wedding on a beach? I want to get married somewhere in europe as I live in england? I would like a list of everything I need to do and the cheapest it could possibly be. What will I need to do if I brought a wedding package? I really need help so I can get the ball rolling!!

Is my mom right about the wedding guest list? We are having a small wedding here in California(100 people), and my mom doesn't want to split the guest list 50/50. She says since most of his family is back east, and she and my dad are paying for the wedding, she should get 1/3 of the list, me 1/3, and my fiance 1/3. Is this correct? I don't want to hurt my fiance's feelings, or his familys'!

Is it etiquette to send wedding list with invitations and can you ask for money?

Where can I find a website to list all traditions of a traditional american wedding? I am not very familiar with EXACTLY what goes on in a wedding and I am getting closer to planning my own. I would like a site to tell me all of the different traditions of a traditional american wedding. Also if one has a planning guide or idea's etc... Would be much appreciated! Thank you... - Jamie No preferred religion really, more christian than anything...not catholic or jewish....

Has anyone ever bought off of or used themselves the John Lewis wedding gift list online?? I am buying a gift off John Lewis website after looking at the Bride/Grooms online list. I was wondering, does this gift get delivered to me to give to the couple, does it get delivered straight to them or is it the couples responsiblility to pick them gift up? Thanks

Another wedding list question? Ive just posted a question about wedding lists and what to ask for and how to give them to people but people are saying that you have to register somewhere like argos, ive just made my own wedding lists of items we need ready to print off to put in invitations, is this completly wrong? as it sounds wrong now, please help!

Where can I find a list of places to have an outdoor wedding in Pittsburgh, PA? My fiance and I want to have an outdoor wedding ceremony, but I need a list of places to choose from. I've searched on numerous websites and cannot seem to find choices. Please help!!

Do I have to give my wedding gift list to my mother-in-law? My mother-in-law has asked many times to see the list of presents my husband and I received for our wedding. I am sort of OK sending just the gift list, but she wants to see the list of gifts alongside the person who gave the gift. I think this isn't her concern and is an inappropriate thing to do to the people who gave us gifts. My husband says: if it's so important to her, what's the big deal to give her the full list? She gave us some financial help for the wedding. I don't think this matters, but maybe it does. What is the etiquette here (if any)? I should mention we have tried to put off giving her this list hoping she would just forget, now 1 and 1/2 years later she is still asking for it.

Help me Write a Makeup List for wedding? I need to make a list of things i will need to do my wedding day makeup. (moisturiser and tools as well) Help me out by writing me out a list of what you think i will need to get. Thankyou!

Where can I find a really practical list of how to organise a wedding? My fella and have have decided to get married (romantic I know) and I'm a little overwhelmed by all the things that I've got to plan. So I want a really practical and comprehensive list of things we need to do. And while you are at it if you know anywhere to get a gorgeous dress but at a sensible price let me know!!

Where can I find a list of questions to ask the manager of a potential wedding receptation location? I am going to my home town to look for wedding locations this weekend. I would also like to find a list of questions to ask the caterer, dj, and wedding site location. 10 point for the best answer.

How do I reduce my Hindu wedding reception guest list while keeping everyone (family and guests) happy? Its the first family wedding for about 10 years and everyone is excited to come from near and far!

is there a good template online that I can use for the wedding guest list? prefer something printable but online may be okay too

Where do I find a good list of suggestions for wedding reception music? I need help fast. Specific suggestions would be great, but I'd love a web resource that is comprehensive.

Is it considered uncouth to attach a registry list to your wedding invitations?

Wedding List Problems? My fiance and I are getting married in April of '08. We just finished with our lists. We both agreed that we wanted a small wedding since we have large families and are on a tight budget. Here is the problem. My mom and grandmother put a list together for me (which made me mad to start with) and my list is now huge compared to his. My fiance made a ton of sacrifices for his list and all I am hearing is "you HAVE to invite this person." We cannot afford it and regardless of what my family says there financial help will be small. Is it rude to not want to invite my grandmother's relatives that I have not seen in 20 years?

What are some really good wedding songs? (List as many as you can)? If you're married, what was YOUR wedding song? Or if you're not, what would/will/your dream song be? Also what are some good wedding themed country songs?

Does anyone know where I can get a list of wedding sites in Ventura County CA? We are looking to get married in the Fall of this year. We would like to reserve a private residence or historical landmark for a wedding ceremony/reception. What is the best way to find these spots? They don't seem to appear on the internet very much. Thanks!!

How do I print wedding invitation mailing list at home? Do I require a new software? I have HP color printer. To be printed on stickers-labels