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Would he think this was a kind thing to do? easy 10 points!?

My boyfriend has gambling problems. He wont get any help for it. So i was thinking of printing out a list of support group meetings and leaving it on his bed for him to find. Do you think he would appreciate it? Would it show i care about him? What do you think? thanks

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1. Nope. He's gonna trash it
2. Try it, but if he pulls any shit call the cops and get him court ordered rehabilitation. If he has such a problem with it if he gets angry or offended in any manner, even if he would never hurt you normally, he could beat you into a coma if not into a coffin. Honestly, try to get him into rehab first. Good Luck
3. things arent going to get any better. tell him to get help or get lost
4. It would show that you care, but it will probably have an adverse affect. He will only get help when he's ready. Pushing him won't get him there. Keep supporting him (emotionally.) Unfortunately, he will probably have to lose everything (perhaps even you) before he gets his wake-up call and realizes he has a problem. Good luck!
5. no
6. If he doesn't want to get any help, then he would just take the paper and throw it away. And if you really care just talk to him and tell him that how can this hurt him financially and emotionally. Communication is the main thing in relationship to show care about each other. Good Luck.
7. He could react one of two ways. Get really upset and completely forget about the support or realize how serious you are about finding him help and go ahead with it. I suggest sitting down with him and having a very serious discussion about it and how concerned you are for him and your guys' relationship. You obviously care about him very much just make sure he knows. Good luck!!
8. Um I think that if he doesn't want to get help he may see that as u trying to push him. I think if you just let him know that you are there to support him and would go with him to any groups or meetings that might be a little better if a way to help him. It's him that has to make the decision to get help or stop. If you pressure him he may just get cold towards you and try to hide it from you.
9. Dear Buddy, It is a great idea and no doubt about it. But since you yourself have understood what gambling is all about and you have made it clear that gambling problems. Do not encourage and please do discourage him. Best of Luck. Regards & May God Bless Senthil EG Iyappan