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I want to delete my ex-boyfriend on Facebook, but I still want to know about his current life, what can I do?

This is actually my first time posting a question and my description is quite long, but please bear with me. I really need some help from the wonderful people like you : ) ! I know this might sound a bit controversial, but it's something that I have been thinking of these days in debating with myself on deleting him permanently on Facebook, as well as the pros and cons of the deleting action/result. Not to mention that I already blocked and deleted him on MSN for two weeks now, and I still check my privacy if he deleted me off his list or not or if he noticed my absence yet. I always appear offline and rarely appear online anymore, so he might not know the difference. I managed not to visit his Facebook for two weeks now, but at times he would update his Facebook personal status for me/everyone to see on the Public Feed. It's very annoying, but I had self-control and was not tempted to visit his page earlier until I finally did today. I was very determined not to care about him anymore, but I guess part of me still do from within. Another annoying thing is he was not active at all in using Facebook for like two years and rarely responds to my posts on his wall. He said that he does not use Facebook often to know about anything anymore, for some reasons. Now, he's been having MEGA-fun on Facebook like crazy: commenting on people's statuses, making new friends, writing on people's walls, responding at a VERY QUICK speed to his notifications, and being active ever so frequently, checking his Facebook at least a million of times per day. I was shocked, because he never was active with me at such great speed of light, when I was his girlfriend. I am very uncomfortable with his drastic change of behaviour/attitude towards Facebook. I admit that I am jealous at him for making new friends, especially female ones. However, I noticed how he always treats his friends SO NICELY and DIFFERENTLY, and put them as #1, as if they are his Kings/Queens. I am not sure if I still love him anymore. Though I do think less of him during the day time, but at nighttime, I kept on having dreams of him and I for this entire week!! It's just too surprising. I thought I could move on and forget about him in no time. We dated for almost 40 months (3 year ish) before he dumped me twice at different times. He regretted every time he dumped me and wanted me to give him another chance. I mean, he was already lucky to get a 2nd chance from me, and he wanted me to chase him back for the 3rd time. What is this?! Not everyone is as lucky as him to get a 2nd chance, but he did not cherish me that much, in my opinion, not to mention that a 3rd chance is a BIG NO-NO!! Please help me out, guys!! Thank You so much!! c=

Public Comments

1. in the settings, you can customize it so he cant see things you dont want him to see! keep him as a friend to do this though! or just go on your friend's facebook (as in with her, no hacking!)
2. This is ridiculously long. I doubt anyone will read it. Shorten it and you may get some real answers.
3. 1. Get a van with no windows 2. Park outside of his house 3. Sit there and watch his every move
4. Jesse! I like ur answer! LOL
5. ditto