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How do you get over a Heartache? And what's your Sign? :(?

I'm a Leo, and my Virgo just broke up with me. I cried and cried last night, I barely got any sleep. I haven't ever had this many tears roll down my face, and I have this enormous pain in my chest :'(. I feel as if I lost my bestfriend. What do you do to get over a Heartache? And what is your Sign? You can list your Moon and Venus planets as well. Mine are: Leo sun. Libra moon. Libra Rising. Virgo Venus.

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1. I would try to confront them .
2. Oh gosh babe, I'm sorry to hear that! I honestly think that the saying of 'time is a healer' is true. I know you must be feeling absolutely horrid but it will get better I'm sure. Try and surround yourself with people who love you, friends who make you laugh. I know you wont feel like laughing but that's what you need, when my heart hurts, I end up sitting quiet, I have to gather my thoughts, try and see things in a different perspective and then when i'm ready I'll put on some comedy shows, films or watch stand up and my smile will return...from the inside :-). Keep yourself busy and try not to lose yourself with thoughts of 'what if?'. Easier said than done I know but I have known people who have broken up with partners who they thought they'd be for life and they don't think they will ever love again, but they do find true love again and it'll be bigger and better next time. Remember, everything happens for a reason! Your gonna be ok!
3. i'm sorry. it takes time to heal. someone's probably said it before but it's true. just let it all out. cry as loud as you want. don't hold it in. you'll get over it easier that way. admit that you're upset and depressed and let the emotions out of your system. and then get back to your normal life. you'll be fine =)
4. Alot of crying. Wondering what I did wrong. Thinking I am not good enough or I failed. Alot of desperate attempts to reconcile. Oh lord I am so pathetic.
5. I spend alot of time alone thinking and rethinking about the situation and why/how it went wrong. What did I do to make this happen, how can I make it better, will it ever get better. I also cry alot and I write in a journal and talk to fam and friends, go out, hang out with people close to me or just do things with my kids. There is never a specific time it takes to get over something or someone...everyone is different. Good Luck! Scorpio Sun Pisces Moon Scorpio Rising Scorpio Venus
6. I met with many tragic things in my life, the most painful and heartbreaking one was the recent and most unexpected death of my father. He died young, I shan't go into the painful details...So I can relate to your pain, and you can somehow relate to mine :) Anyways, I'm known for my resilience by many of my friends and I keep a cheerful and optimistic face on, although inside me is a big hell of a mess. This mask is there for make me slightly more confident, and assures people around me to not worry too much for me too. I will do this until time has passed, a long stretch of time would gradually ease the pain of my loss. Time would heal, though not fully and would still leave at least a scar that reminds you of this loss forever till you're gone... I know about the loss, losing your loved one, whether alive or dead, the unexpected breaking apart is something I can comprehend, because you might never see your loved one again, and that... well it cant be explained beyond words right? Yeah, be brave, time will pass. At least for you you can muster your strength for the future. Since you can either find your best friend and reconcile with him/her, or find another new friend to begin a new life. I know about the huge massive rip across your chest when this loss happens. Its natural among us humans. We have emotions, its just how well you express them or control them :) Be strong :)
7. Grow a set of Ballls
8. They typically have to get over me.
9. kissy kissy
10. i think its the libra moon and rising that makes your heart weak and very sensitive.. :(
11. i tried in everyway to get over my heartache but i'm still heartbroken from the love of my life for more than 2 years (think it's 3 now) someone told that if it was your true love, then sadly you won't get over that someone Libra male & the love of my life is a Gemini Libra Asc. (Rising), Aries Moon, Virgo Venus
12. Omg you poor thing. Yeah i feel your pain i went through this on last month and it was very painful... I really have a hard time expressing my feelings so I just ignored every little thing about being heartbroken. Thats a huge mistake tho! you need to confront your emotions and have lots of control. And figure out what once made you happy. Never lose hope in love. Never! and please remember that. " The past is the past, so forget everything that made you sad, but never forgert those who brought you happiness a while back. Because they could be a welled use to your present to cheer you up with a great delight!" Meaning forget all those people that did you wrong but never forget those who were always beside you and that love you. And I know your strong so keep that chin up mate. = )