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Should I tell him..? Don't know what to do and no one is answering -.-?

Kso. I'm a sophmore. When I was a freshman, I started talking to this guy [Let's call him Phil.]. I started talking to him over facebook in April. We had SO much in common. I actually learned that he was my #1 match in the entire school from this survey thing we did. He was a junior. I liked him through the summer until June. We talked and IM'd each other a lot. I gave him my phone number and told him we should hang out, but he never texted me or asked me too. He said he prefers emailing. Whatever. Anyway, at the end of June, I decided to tell him. So, I started talking to him and I found out he likes this really slutty girl. (I don't know WHY he likes her. She went out with an 11 year old when she was 14 to make a 17 year old guy jealous. YEAH. She's also a *****.) Anyways, he said that he thinks that she likes him and that they're going to prom together. I was TOTALLY CRUSHED. I told him I liked him and I would 'go cry and get over it.' I was serious, but I thought that made me seem really weird xD, so I told him I was kidding about the crying part and he replies, 'Oh, okay. Well as long as I didn't make you cry, let's be friends.' The *****? So, I didn't talk to him for a week or two. And then school started back. I was on my way to 3rd period, and I was LITERALLY thinking, 'Wouldn't it be AWESOME if I didn't see him again? Then I could move on, get over it, and next year he would graduate and I wouldn't ever have to see him again..' Then I walked in to 3rd. He was sitting in the ******** back row. That class was RUINED. I tried to sit as far away from him as I could by sitting in the front, and the teacher tells me to move to the back. -.- Anyway, since then, I've become pretty close with one of his best friends. I haven't talked to Phil and I deleted him off my friend list in order to help myself get over him. [STILL hasn't happened.] I told his best friend that I was pissed at him, and he probably told him and Phil prolly thinks i'm mad at him now. It's REALLY funny though, because the girl he likes has a boyfriend now. xDD Yeah, I don't think she figured it out, or if she did, she doesn't like him back.. Anyways, I actually think i'm in love with Phil, but I don't know how to tell him or even if I should. It would be really super akward if I told him. I WANT too though. I'm really tired of it being akward as it is, and me not talking to him and being a ***** to him for no reason, other than my hurt feelings and me being an immature beeyotch. What should I do? I think about him all the time and I can't get him out of my head. I either NEED to be with him, or get over him completley. What should I do? Please help. I'll thumbs up anyone who answers and give 5 stars to the best answer.

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1. Hey! I'm a sophomore too! GO SOPHOMORES!! Anyway, Well, it sounds like you are really heart broken (wow, i must be a genius to figure that out). If you are tired of being awkward and being mean to him then just talk to him and get over that. That is how i moved over my first "love". I just talked to him and i decided that it was pointless to be mad at him. I still hate what he did to me and i never get super excited to see him but i have forgiven him. But it really helps to just push past it and start over. And maybe after you try to be friends again, see if you still "love" him. After a while maybe you feel like your ready to try and tell him again, maybe he will have realized by then that you are an amazing person. I hope i helped, so very sorry if i didn't. Best of luck! mine please? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmXg0HNjGYM_YKWqXNbhnezsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110817114305AA1dDjW