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Even though I was wrong, do you think he overreacted?

I used this other girls pictures online let's call her Sally, and this guy that would flirt with 'me'. However it wasn't serious, we weren't dating, and from my understanding he flirted with other girls and wasnt that into me (even the fake picture me enough to date etc). When I asked him to he didn't want to go on cam or exchange emails I did apologize to the guy but when he found out he totally flipped out. He told me to never speak to him again and to f off. Later he told his friends that I'm f'd up even after I apologized to him. He said if I talked to him he'd post the real girls myspace page for everyone to see. He also deleted me on his friends list. Do you think he only liked and talked to me because of the pictures? Does anyone else think he overreacted.....because if he was truly interested he would have tried to date me, would have wanted to go on cam, and at least talk on the phone and exchange email info right? Plus we were friends for only 2 or 3 months I guess I'd get that if it Was a dating site and we were dating.......but like I said we were just friends

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1. He may have overreacted just a tad, but I can sort of understand his disgust with the immaturity, the game playing and the straight out fraud. He obviously became attached to what he THOUGHT you looked like, due to your deception, so I don't blame him for being mad. You weren't THAT picture, so not only was he no longer interested, but he probably felt like a fool because you pretended to be someone you were not. If you don't have enough confidence to post your own picture, then you shouldn't be using that site to meet guys. You wouldn't like it if it was done to you, so do unto others...Just be yourself, or either just meet people in person so they can decide if they like you for your looks or for your personality. If he got that mad then so be it. You apologized, but your credibility was shot and he no longer trusted you. You have no choice, based on what he said to you, than to just let him go and chalk it up as a lesson learned which you shouldn't repeat. Never hide behind someone else's looks or their life. Learn to do YOU always. Good Luck.