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Who do to deal with a girl from work who said she just wants to be friends?

I told a girl from work I like her. To be more specific "I like you but I would never cross that line because your friendship is more important". She said "good because thats all I can give you". I try to downplay/spin it like, 'I meant you have a lot of qualities that I like'. Of course all of this conversation happened in a social network. Now I feel awkward. She is not the gossiping type, but still the possibility of spreading rumors at work are there. Aside from that, it hurts a bit, because well maybe I'm not as attractive (Im not ugly Im a fair good looking guy) as I thought and getting older (30-31, she is early 20's). I wish I could take her out of my list just to avoid looking her up but that would make things only worse. What should I do? All of this just happened but I don't know what awaits for me this week at work.

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1. Sadly to say mate, but just be her friend, maybe another girl will join the place your working at you guys have a bond. Wait for the right one, or keep trying. If you really want this girl your gonna have to keep trying until she gives up and gives you a go. Tell her " Could we just try?" Or ask if she is busy or anything? maybe she might need you oneday. the best way is to be straight up, do it like this : tell her how you feel and then walk away, dont say anything but just walk away. she might go home and think about it and the next day at work she wants to hang out. KEEP TRYING. but not toooo far!