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My husband rather talk to her on line friend than me. What will I do?

Been married for 12 years now, he sent me to school, provide everything, but now i know he doesnt love me anymore. And then i discovered he has a relationship with this girl on line. i happen to talk to the girl using his id,pretend to be him, it seems thy're just friends, but she knows what's happening in our marriage, the problems, and he told her, "i dont love my wife, and many times he want to leave me". But when i checked the tel.bill, there goes the listing of their calls to each other,which comes everyday,long distance calls.I am pregnant, but only because i promise him i will leave him if he make me pregnant now (he havent touched me for years). I love him, and i did it so that i can hold him. But he's still the same,aloof and dont want to open up to me how he feels. i am hurt that he choose her over me, he even not met her yet in person. Will i let him go?What about me and the baby?

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1. Why would you wanna stay with a man like that??? Get out now. Sorry it will not change I have been there and it hurts, but the longer you are away from him the more you w.ill see why you are better off without him. You will be fine you will surprise yourself just how strong you really are.
2. re: What about me and the baby? ....the baby will greatly benefit from having two or even just one LOVING parent. I'd google: relationship skills to learn how to cope with him and look into self esteem training for your self and for the sake your baby
3. Get out. He is giving you a sign loud and clear that you are not his number one priority. Don't be stupid and regret this later, you'll be sorry. P.S. No, I am not a scorned woman. I am a happily married 49 year old man who is a divorce lawyer with 24 years experience. Don't be dumb!!!! Everything will work out.
4. you tell him not to touch you and then to touch you why not see what your doing. your pushing him away and is that fare to him instead of trying to get to him or read his emails why not talk to him and go from there
5. Ask your husband about this friendship. Ask yourself : will you be happy if you leave him. If you think you will not be happy without him, then stay with him and love him unconditionally. If you believe in God, pray well, it will help you a lot.
6. you both need some counseling...
7. I feel sorry for the husband in this situation. To give everything to his wife and not get anything in return. I don't blame him for confiding his problems with another woman. He should not have let you trick him into giving you a child either. He needs to wise up and move on before things can get any worse. You as the wife need to move on too. Stop spying on him and just talk to him. Tell him what you know. That might make him feel better so he can get the green light to leave.
8. Move on sweetheart as much as it hurt,s...be strong for your youself as he surely can,t be for you...live your life for you and your future child, BUT NOT WITH HIM as one day you will meet and fall in love with someone else and cherish your child, Only then will you be Happy.. Warmest Regards.FROM TONY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!