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Was this a bitc*** thing this girl did to me?

Ok, so all last year I really liked this girl, and I think she knew. Anyways, we talked more over the year, but I never thought anything of it. Anyways, then she started making remarks to other girls like "You are SO lucky you are in his class this year!" and stuff like that. Basically making it sound like she missed being in the class from the year before. Anyways, we both did track and we jumped. We got a little bit closer. When I was a Junior I wasn't even planning on going to prom, but I did with a friend, and I ended up in Prom Royalty. It turned out to be really fun so I figured I would go my senior year. So, my friend asked her if I was on her "Don't ask me to prom" list, because a lot of people liked her, but she didn't want to go to prom with them. Anyways, my friend pretty much told her I was going to ask her and she was like "Alright that will be fun!" Anyways, I finally decided I was going to ask her the next day, in a cute way such as a riddle/surprise/etc. Then I got a text from someone saying "I'm asking "her" to prom." So I told him, "She already knew I was asking her and said Ok, I just haven't officially done it yet." I tried reasoning with him and telling him I already kinda asked her and it is MY Senior year and stuff, but no. Anyways, he goes on and texts her and was all "Do you wanna go to prom with me?" Then our friend texted me and was all "She just REALLY likes him. Sorry." I was like "Seriously." Anyways, so I ended up not going to Prom as a Senior. The friend caught me like 2 days later and asked who I was going to ask to prom and I replied "I'm not going anymore" She actually felt really bad and told me to ask someone and stuff. Anyways, the rest of school went on and this girl acted like nothing ever happened. Then on Facebook, she put on her status "Like my status for a truth in you inbox." I "liked" it, expecting to get a message about how cool I was or funny, or whatever people say when they don't really have something to say about you. Instead it said "I'm really wish I would have went to prom with you instead. I'm positive it would have been more fun and not near as awkward." That really made me feel better actually, but I still felt stupid. I was happy that she apologized, but like 3 months later? Is it just me, or does this whole situation kinda make her seem like a biotch? If you are going to say "Well you should have asked her sooner." I couldn't. I was in Utah on spring break, and I didn't want to be a lamer and ask her over text :/ SO, what do you think?

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1. She's a kid. You're a kid. Kids do dumb stuff and worry about things that don't even matter... like proms. Get over it.
2. Ouch... She shouldn't do that, but it wasn't a bitch thing to do. It was an unwise choice and she totally should've apologized earlier, but it may have been embarrassing for her to apologize for something that wasn't even her fault (she has a choice and the freedom to pick whomever). And you should've gone to prom! But I digress.