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I lost a friend, do you think I should start speaking to her again?

Well, in the summer, she kissed a guy I really liked because she "knew him longer" and she didnt even like him. I forgave her, then me and the guy started arguing, and she took his side. And she was flirting with the guy I like. She told some of my secrets. And she persuaded me to sneak out, and I did, and we got caught and I got in huge trouble, and she started making statuses about me. I know this sounds all bad, but sometimes she can be a good friend, and she's funny. But we got into an argument cause she made a status about me. Should I forget about her? I know I should, but we've been bestfriends since the 3rd grade, but she made a new list of bestfriends and im not on there. Everyone is friends with her, and I dont want to feel left out. I want to be friends with her, but it may be bad. But I feel weird if im not. I dont know what I should do.

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1. Forget about her. answer mine? http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002287037422
2. Not you, if she is a really good friend, she should be sorry and say it and mean it. She should be the one going up to you, and hun, if she doesn't or didn't she's not worthy to have her as a friend. Those who's friends with everyone is not everybody's friends, i dont know if you probably get it or not but it's true, just because everyone talk to her means that they are going to be for her at anytime. If she did not appreciate you and noticed what was the value of your friendship, then do not worry for her. A friend is not at times a good friend, a friend is forever and ever at bad and good times. First of all, she can make mistakes, but she went too far in my opinion.
3. If I were you, I wouldn't be her best friend but an acquaintance or just a normal friend. Then, if things are going good, try and become better and better friends with her until you are best friends.
4. This seems like an unfortunate circumstance you are in. I don't know you or your friend, but based on what you've told me it seems like your friend has done has considerably hurt your feelings, and if what you are saying is true, I don't think you should forgive her. It seems like she back-stabbed you, and no longer considers you one of her close friends. Now, it seems fairly obvious that you shouldn't attempt to be good friends with her again, but there's no purpose in being enemies with her. From what I've gathered, she doesn't seem like the kind of person that will approach you first asking to resolve your issues. What I would recommend is for you is to approach her first, and try to resolve some of your problems. After this, things will not be awkward if you ever have encounter her in the hallways or are forced to talk to her. I think being on good-terms with her is what you should go for, but don't try to become good friends with her again.