I run an independent home business online which recently has become lucrative enough for me to quit my day job in order work at home and be with my two kids. Leaving my job was the best thing for the kids. They are ecstatic. However, I think I am having an identity crisis, having worked full-time since I was 16. I don't really know what to do with my hands, so to speak, and my adult interaction is limited to talking to clients on the phone. My husband is a minister who works very long hours away from home. We are both very involved with the church. But he comes home from the church and wants to turn on the TV and blank out everything around him. I want to hear about his day and tell him about mine. I know this is typical of many marriages. However, I need some ideas to liven up our our marriage and make it more interesting. We do see each other a lot more now that I am home, but I am at my wit's end as to how to keep a smile on both of our faces.