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I read an article recently that listed the top sex fantasies of men and women.?

The men fantasies were all what I'd expect (threeways, younger girls, older girls, etc...) but some of the girl fantasies suprised me. Being in a harem was a top fantasy. So was rape! Any women out there want to explain this to my confused little, man brain?

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1. Being raped as a fantasy is weird, but whatever floats their boat Help? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvGssHeikx1PpAS1hcBJgSTsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090706234147AALWBda
2. wtf why would a women want to get raped? hell noo i don't fantasizes about that! ever
3. who exactly was writing that article? thats just weird. I certainly wouldn't want to be raped or in a harem! ....freaks.
4. hahah rape is a big one, but not like actual rape haha haha but my ex use to love when i would grab her, tie her up, and take charge..
5. I don't think that people necessarily fantisize about rape per-say just the overall thought of domination and possibly being wanted by another? just my guess..
6. Just because a woman has a rape fantasy does not mean she wants to be raped. What she really wants is to be taken unexpectedly and "forced" to submit and enjoy while having the freedom to struggle and fight against it. It's a fantasy only. If it's one that is actually fulfilled, it is done by a trusted partner. The fantasy is discussed ahead of time to determine what she wants to happen and what's crossing the line. And from what I've heard and read, a couple would typically plan when it would happen. What I mean by planning is they could agree that sometime, anytime during a particular week, for example, is when the "rape" will occur. She would have a time frame so she knows to expect it, but she doesn't know when it will be so it will be a surprise. Remember, this is fantasy. When this occurs in reality, it is NOT rape, but only acting out a scenario. A woman who wants this has a great deal of trust in her partner to know that he would never hurt her. It's a freedom to allow yourself to be dominated in such a way, knowing you will never be hurt.