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I did something small and it turned into a big problem. Am I Unfair?

On facebook, there's this thing where you pick the top 5 of whatever category you answer. The pick 5 of the day was, "5 Things You Want Right Now!" My answers were sex, chocolate, money, my birthday and a car. When my boyfriend looked at my page, he got upset that I said sex as one of my answers. He said the whole world doesn't need to know that we're not having sex and it's not fair for me to post his personal business online. I told him that it wasn't about him, it was just one of my personal answers. Eventually, it turned into a 20 minute argument. I really love my boyfriend and I didn't mean to upset him about something so stupid. Was I being unfair like he said?

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He is obviously the woman in this relationship. You're not unfair, he's too sensitive. Just because sex was your top answer doesn't let everyone know you are not having sex with him, it just lets them know you are not having sex at that very moment, as you are typing. In all honesty, sex is probably the top answer for the majority of people active on facebook.
Unless the whole world reads your facebook, I don't think you need to worry. Tell the boyfriend to get off your back! (no pun intended)
I don't think you where but He feels like it hurts him so maybe you can offer to changeit will make him happy. I dated a guy once who said he was single online and he wasn't really upseted me. I think you migth now of ment to hurt him but he thinks about it differntly.
Well if you want sex and have a boyfriend...then technically your survey was referring to him. He must be the type that likes to keep your bedroom activities between the two of you. There is nothing wrong with that. That's just what he prefers. If he would of put that on his survey....would you have been offended? Would you consider removing it in order to smooth things over?
No, u r not. it's ur opinion, ur views. he's not having an open mind, that's all. take it easy.
WOW! Sounds like he is the girl in the relationship (no offense to you) But $ex is not something to be ashamed off. Everyone has $ex and it's part of life. I am sure when people read that they are not going to think "omg their not having $ex?!!!" What I would think would be "gosh me too!!!! or Get it!" Or something fun along those lines. But bottom line is that you are not being unfair. He needs to quit his crying. What guy would be mad that his gf wants $ex. WTF LOL good luck!
you know ive done the same thing when me an my fiance wasnt "active" for a while but he asked why not fix it then i told him no ...but you not being unfair...he needs to realize just becuz you post it up on face book doesnt mean your going to f*** the next person you see...he need to get over it
Just because it said you want sex doesnt mean it revealed to the world you and him are currently not riding the hobby horse. It said only that right now at the current moment you want sex. It like a porn star saying wow, right now I could sure go for some sex. It said nothing about you two never having sex before. For all anyone knows you had sex last night and want another round because it was that good. He took it to serious, besides its your page.
Your boyfriend's response to your thoughts should be an indication of the differences between you two. If you are more fun-loving and open, and he is more serious and conservative, perhaps it might be a good time to consider your relationship? If you are finding such differences now, maybe you aren't all that compatible. Good luck.