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My Family Never Loved Me?

On Friday May 1st me and my daughter and my daughters godfather went to my nephews birthday party. When we arrived at the birthday party Destiny wanted to play with her cousin Jacob. Jacob didn't seem too interested in playing with Destiny if anything he seemed annoyed and bothered by her. After a little while the kids went downstairs to play video games. Danny (Destinys godfather) went downstairs with them. After about 20 minutes I heard my daughter screaming and crying. Me and my sister Michelle Gerdes went downstairs to see why Destiny was crying. Danny informed me she was crying because she did not get a turn to play video games. The mother did not want her son to play the video game because it was too scary. The kids were fighting over the game controller and Destiny was getting upset that she didn't get to play the scary video game. Destiny then threw a temper tantrum I told her that she needed to go upstairs and sit on the couch for a time out. As we walked upstairs my sister was in the front of my daughter my daughter was behind her and I was behind my daughter. When we got upstairs I then retold Destiny that she needed a time out and she had to sit on the couch. My mother told me not to put her on a time out because this was a party. My daughter was still throwing a temper tantrum and I told my mother to mind her f ing business. My stepfather got mad at me and told me don't talk to your mother like that. I then told my stepfather that we were leaving because it was obvious that Jacob did not want to play with Destiny and we did not feel welcome. I then grabbed the toys r us bag of presents that I bought my nephew and started to head toward the front door to leave the house. She then slammed the door shut blocking me from leaving the house. She refused to let us leave. My sister then grabbed the toys r us bag out of my hand. I then grabbed the bag back and she started to bite my hand. I managed to get my hand out of her mouth and tried again to leave. She then lunged at me and jumped on to my back from behind making it very difficult for me to leave. She told me you are not leaving. I told her get off of me let me go I tried moving my body side to side to get her off of my back. My step father then lunged at me and we all fell to the ground on top of Destiny and my sister hitting her head on the dining room table as she went down. My step father had me in a head lock pushing my face to the ground cutting my air supply off. I could not breathe I thought I was going to die. I then looked up at my mother and told her I can't breathe he's hurting me. After a long minute and a half he let me go. I then tried to leave the house once again grabbing Destinys hand my sister then tried pulling Destinys hand away from me. My sister pulled Destiny so hard she came out of one of her shoes. I then tried pulling my daughters hand again to leave the house. My sister then grabbed one of my daughters pigtails she pulled so hard that my daughters hair scrunchee came out of her hair and that upset my daughter so much. Once we got outside it was raining and wet out. Destiny had only one shoe on at this time Danny was still stuck in the house. Then my sister yelled in Dannys face you better not leave me here with this mess. I then reached for my phone and dialed 911 at this time I was light headed, dizzy and disoriented when I was on the phone with 911. I was so weakened by this unfortunate event that we thought it was best to drive off and go home and not wait for 911. The reason why we decided to leave was because my daughter was terrified and scared of her grandpa. She told me grandpa was bad for hurting Daddy and that it wasn't nice and she was sad because she felt like she ruined the birthday party. We arrived home around 8:30pm and went to bed at 9:30pm. We were woken up at 1:30am by CPS and a police officer at our door. They told us they needed to see Destiny. They saw Destiny and told me to take off her clothes but leave her underwears on. They also asked Destiny a bunch of questions. The caseworker told me there was a report filed against me saying that I hit my daughters head with the door repeatedly it was clearly obvious that Destiny was not abused in any way she had no marks on her. I even pulled down her underwears and showed them her backside. This has been very stressful on me and my family. I've been in so much pain physically and emotionally. Early that morning I had to take Destiny to a doctors appointment for a booster shot. After my daughters doctors appointment we went to the hospital because I've been in such pain in my back and neck after what my stepfather did to me. We were in the hospital for 6 hours. When we got out of the hospital I called my house to check the answering machine there was a message from the suffolk county police department asking me to call them back. When I called them they told me my sister filed a police report against me and there was a warrant out for my arrest. I was to

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I scammed threw it pretty much but it sound like you need to take your daughters and son and leave them the hell alone. It may hurt but you can do better than that and your children shouldnt be exposed to that at all and neither should you as a father. You need to get away they seem like trouble you also should talk to a lawyer and the cps supervisor to tell them the situation.
What happens next? Your wods got cut off. I read it all and I feel very bad for you. My advice for you is that when this situation clears up with you and your daughter, to just distance yourself away from your family. Let them back into your lives when you feel you are ready. And when you do decide to let them back in to your lives try to make it as civil as possible. Don't swear, try your best not to get upset. If you can't get along with your sisters then I think that you should just build a life with you and your daughter.
why do you go around these toxic people? I read your other questions, you need to ask your self this question.