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Fair way to end a two year relationship? Whose at fault?

I picked her up one night she called me because there was a huge bug in her car when she got home to her house from a party. Her dad locked her out and she was standing outside of her car because of this bug so I drive 15 minutes to go get her. She sleeps over and goes through my phone off and on the rest of the night. . . We wake up the next morning and her phone is vibrating non-stop so I grab and and say who is calling you/texting you at like 8:30 in the morning?? She said no one so I get suspicious and ask her to show me. She wont. So now I have a problem because I allowed her to go through mine because I knew I had nothing bad, and now I cant even ask who has been calling her. She wont tell me. So I take her phone off the night stand and try going through it. She follows me downstairs and is yelling give me my phone back at the top of her lungs so i go into my kitchen to get away. She gets my house phone and calls the cops on me and tells them i grabbed the phone out of her hand and all this shit. So the cops come walking up and we are outside of my house and I tell them I am all upset because I had showed her my phone so Im like fuck this shit this relationship is way out of control. I have no idea who she called when she needed a ride the night before, she wont tell me who calls her, or texts (not that its my business anyway). So the cops just give her a ride home and I leave at the same time for my dentist appointment. Haven't seen her face since.It has been nearly a month. It was insane. She had no respect for me at all.

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1. Wow ouch.. But I don't blame you one bit!!! My boyfriend will NOT let me go near his phone. I've looked at it in the past and there has been shady **** on it, so now of couse I'm all paranoid when he's texting people non-stop. But seriously, I'm almost scared to even touch his phone in case he FLIPS out on me. You had every right to want to know who was calling, just as I have every right to. Too bad thats not how things always work out. PS-you're kinda hot