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My step dad is RUINING my life, what should I do!?

My step dad is a big JERK! Last week he wouldn't let me wear a skirt to a party, and then he said I was acting like a tramp when he found vodka in my purse! Once he interrupted my BF and I in the hot tub and made him go home just because I took my top off! He is always telling my mom I smell like cigarette smoke and that I came home past curfew! Just because he doesn't have any kids and married my mom does NOT mean we are insta-family. How do I get him to mind his own business!?

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He will mind his own business when you: Stop drinking Quit smoking Dress appropriately Stop taking your top off Come in before curfew Do all that & you will be golden Best wishes
You are one spoiled brat. Your step - father is doing what he is suppose to do.
um you don't, your obviously a moronic teenager (this coming from another teenager) and you are being a tramp by the way..... seriously No top in a hot tub? he just wants to protect you and if your stupid enough to keep doing this crap, then he cant help you. But there's nothing you can do. hopefully you'll keep getting in trouble and finally quit being stupid
Well since he married your mom that does kind of make you guys "insta-family." He's an adult and you live under his and your mom's roof. Follow their rules and live with it, or move out and do what you want (although you sound way too immature to be old enough to move out). Suck it up & deal with it, stop acting like a little "tramp" and you wouldn't have problems, end of it.
spoiled brat you can't do anything and he married to your mom and he will do what he tell you to do so stop drinking you are too young to drink anyway you are underage and drinking allowed is 21+ years old only keep in mind smoking is for 18+ not underage...
oh my god im sorry but you are one messed up child, YOU are the problem he is being a good step-dad and trying to prevent you from becoming some homeless drug-addict prostitute get your act together youre disgusting. i feel bad for your mother.
By not drinking underage, not smoking , not taking off your top in a hot tub.
rofl i agree with everyone here "your business" is a path of self destruction and hes only tring to help,......
Unless you are over 18 and living on your own and not in his house, he is minding his business. He does not want a smoking pregnant tramp to support.
You're an idiot, seriously. There are lots of kids who don't have anyone that cares enough about them to discipline them. Obviously you're like 12 years old. I feel bad for your step dad.
You wouldn't like anyone's answer unless they told you that you were right. You obviously know the answer to the question, you know he's right.
well who knows what could happen at a party with your short tiny skirt, stop drinking then, well you shouldn't be stripping in a hot tub anyway, stop hanging around smoking people or stop smoking, get home before your supposed to! its that simple! and your step-dad is like 25x more right than you are :) no offence but your a brat!
he is just being a good dad and preventing you from getting into trouble
No offense but from what you described you are sounding a little trampy. Exactly how short was the skirt? If it is a mini-skirt well...... if the shoe fits then... Have you ever stepped aside and asked yourself, "am I being a tramp?" As I said I am not trying to hurt your feelings or offend you. Am just asking you to take a step back and be real with yourself. As far as step parents go if I were to ever be a step parent I would never tell the kid what to do. I don't know but I have this thing where I am weird about telling other peoples kids what to do. If I were him I would tell your mother what you were doing, and if she didn't care I would probably not have married her. That is just me though.
omg . jesus christ . get a life ! maybe he just wants the best for you and is looking out for you! dont be such a whor3 and stop taking your top of you stupid idiot .
just kill yourself. your life sucks.
he will mind his own business onve u can fix urs. stop: smoking, drinking, taking of ur top, and whatever ur doing.
Maybe you need to stop acting like a Tramp....taking your top off?? Tells me what kind of girl you are. No respect for any adult or yourself. I agree with your Step dad....act like a decent daughter and maybe he will learn to respect you because you don't deserve any respect. Drinking ..smoking.. late coming home. You're lucky they don't kick you out....I would.
i understand its hard to deal with a step parent trying to act all parent like and you resent it obviously which may be why you are acting out honestly vodka doesnt make you a tramp everyone drinks its normal just dont drink and drive and dont binge smoking is bad and you shouldnt do it its smells bad and the taste when kissing is horrible you sound like your 16 or older so if you want to make out with ur bf i dont see the problem i mean the takign the top off while ur parents are home its just rude remember to them ur still their little girl or at least ur moms little girl and curfew i dont think you should have a curfew ... just talk to him tell him that you understand taht he istrying ot be caring and all but you need your space and that shits going to happen wheather he likes it or not
He's not being a jerk at all! If I were your step dad and smack you upside the head.