Why do I feel so left out from the horoscope section?
Everybody from the horoscope section is friendly to each other but not friendly to me. For an example, I was not mention once in the list of people in Archangel's question. Whenever I answer a question, the question gets deleted so it looks like i never answer question before. I never get BA. Not many people answer my question. I add people to my contacts list, but no one add me but two contacts that doesn't exist anymore. People never email me messages. One week ago i emailed Yvonne a message, but she didn't reply. People from the horoscope section is making me feel left out. Is it my sign? Is that why I don't get along with horoscope people? My birthday is August 19, 1993. Time is 5:43 am in Sacramento, California. This is so funny. Nobody care about me before. Now I act pitiful & people start to add me in contacts. Is this what they call life? Lovely. Isn't it too late to reply to my message now, Yvonne? One week later? Pssh! I don't care anymore. Now you add me to your list, Arch? This is what I call the power of pity.
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- Just give it time and the people will get to know you. Try and answer a lot of questions in the horoscope section so we all will get to know you better. I just added you to my contacts. You can add me as one of your contacts. Edit: Left-T please go to the pampered question. I want to see your response. How is Amiri doing?
- Awww thats mean, I don't hang out in the horoscopes section, normally in health and pets, but you're more than welcome to add me to your friends, but I don't use Yahoo Messenger... But feel free to send me emails!!! It's alright!
- It has nothing to do with your horoscope sign. Sadly, yahoo answers isn't really about making friends and people caring about one another. People come here to answer a question or learn from one. And, then other people just come on here to be ignorant and or their just bored. What I'm trying to say is: Don't take any of this stuff seriously. You shouldn't come to yahoo answers of all places to feel like you belong. This is the wrong place for that. You will just get your feeling hurt by most people. I'm not trying to be mean by what I'm saying so don't think that OK. I'm just being honest. It's mean that someone would delete your question and make you feel unimportant. I'm going to add you to my contacts. You seem like a sweet person.
- Aww... I'm sorry to make you feel that way... :( I've noticed that you've send me a message, but I couldn't email you back because your email button is disabled...and I don't know your real email address. I just added you to my contacts :) Sorry for making you feel bad. And please don't feel that way. I didn't know your sign before, that's why I didn't add you to my list in Arch's question. Well, I'm going back to edit my list. Leo, right? :)
- Heidi is right hang around a bit more and you'll see. Some people here are quite rude, and we have our share or trolls. But there are cool people here, and though Passion is right about this place, there is nothing wrong with making some internet friends and getting to know people online. But honestly I have not seen you around much. As for Yvonne maybe she was busy, she seems like a nice person. There are nice people here, you just have to look closely :D edit: I noticed you don't allow IM or email, and all of your network and Q&A are hidden. Maybe allow email at least eh? Just a thought, it would seem more friendly.
- Wow, this has to be the most depressing question I have ever heard. You are a leo and I do not know many leos that have a hard time getting to know other people. Just try a different section or join a blog. I like to go outside my house. That is where all of my real friends are. Also, if you e-mailed Yvonne and she does not know your real e-mail address she cannot reply if you do not allow e-mail through your profile.
- Give it time and people will get to know you better.Don't feel like your left out of here because your not,and if you want i can add you to my contact list ok :)
- Just answer a lot of questions and begin to really get a network going. Even though I'm on here all the time, I'm not sure if I'm well known either. But know you're on my contacts so lets talk!
- Sweetie...I can definitely agree that there are some tight bonds on here! I think that is what I like about this section so much. I love seeing how friendly everyone is with one another. I really enjoy a lot of the questions (and an amazed on how any one person can come up with so many wonderful and interesting questions) I also love the answers too. I enjoy sharing my thoughts and it is fun to see the responses to your honest and sincere expressions (mine are always honest and sincere). Just give it more time and keep answering and contact those who you really admire because of their answers. Chances are some of them will admire your answers too and will add you to their contacts as well! Don't worry...just have fun! Good luck! btw if you add me to your contacts I will gladly add you too!(*.~)
- sometimes people read an answer that you wrote the don't agree,they block you give thumbs down and even report your answers. it happened to me too.after i gave my honest answers to a questions lately.even i give a price on something i get reported ! (typical behavior of vindictive Sagittarius )
- Am adding you, too:) Don't mind us, we're all just self-absorbed egomaniacs. Likely, we've been too busy gazing with awestruck wonder at our own charts to notice anyone new. And no, it's not your sign, because you're a Leo, so you'll fit right in:-D (am just kidding:)) Welcome, Brooke and enjoy your stay:)
- Don't feel left out. :) I don't really associate with people in the Horoscopes category either. If you want more people to notice you, just spend more time here. Anyways, I'll add you as a contact on my other account. It's all good, hehe.
- well, I'm sorry if you were excluded and no one mention you in my question. I agree with what Heidi said. Try to answer lots of quesiton in this section and give it time. Try to give humorous answer. Tril and me are really friendly people and at least one of us will notice you. Don't take things too seriously. Try not to bash any other signs. (cause people can be sensitive and they will report you). :) Edit: whoa, whats with the attitude or a failed sarcasm? at least Yvonne answer ur email back and I just added you cause I felt sorry for you. Edit: I just noticed that you havn't answer a single question yet and you are complaining why you don't get BA...LMAO
- you have to answer people.......I have not heard of you before and saw that your profile was "empty".........so why do you wonder (not saying that nastily). I do not know you but I still will add you as a contact. I do not know your background or anything but am just like that at times.. By the way TRILL.........I blocked you by mistake going over your avatar and unblocked you right away when i realised what I had done..mistakes happen..........I also added people by mistake too lol :-) And NOT everybody is friendly at all..........do not make that mistake. LOL LEFTIE....:-)((((((((((
- Brooke, you have to understand that even Top contributors get thumbs down like me for instance. I got 4 questions deleted since Monday. Who cares... ? The joiks here can do what they want, but they can't kill my soul and my heart. I wanted to get to the highest level as a challenge. In the process, I started to get BA but not a consistent level even to this date. Don't get discourage. Frankly, it's the first time I see your name and i am on here every night almost. I usually answer all my contacts unless the question is ridiculous. Add me to your contacts and post your question. But, if the questions are childish or senseless, I won.t, answer them. Be fair and take the subject seriously and I will help you get some points. Libra Edit...Tril, Isabelle blocked you b-cuz you are a pest. But we like you and decided to give you another chance Lol....
- I was feeling all warm and fuzzy reading thru the answers here and how sweet everyone was to you. Then I saw your edit. Now I'm confused. What was it you wanted to happen?
- I agree with jaeded. At first glance, I felt really bad for you and even added you as a contact. After coming back and seeing your additional details I quickly removed you because I didn't want you to think that I was doing it out of pity. So, I too, am wondering what it is exactly that you're looking for. Now that people are adding you as contacts and trying to get to know you you kind of kick dirt in their face. I'm on here a LOT and to be honest this is my first time seeing you around. I bet that's the case for a lot of other people so it's nothing to take personal. If you just hang out in any section long enough you'll naturally get to know people so why not try that here? And if people want to add you as a contact then take it as a compliment because that, in itself, is a sign that people are going out of their way and trying to welcome and include you. If you don't let them then you only have yourself to blame for feeling like you don't fit in.
- Hey I live in the same town as you. . . dont feel bad. it takes time for people to warm up to you.
- This is not suppose to be a chatting place. We aren't all here to make friends. But, my advice to you is to get a eye catching avatar to make yourself distinguishable. Also, make more contributions by answering more questions on this section if you want attention.
- Hey you're not the only one. I'm left out of everything. On yahoo, message boards, forums, hell even at work on the street no one wants to talk to me. I used to it though.
- It's like everything else in life, when people know and like each other they tend to be chumming. Get to know some people on here and that will change. I'm not a regular because my work does not allow me to be online that much, so I don't know that many persons here either. You will eventually receive a best answer. I know I was on here for about a week and wondered about the system. When I received my first best answer notice, I actually went into work and told co-workers about it, lol. Keep answering questions and adding input so people can become familiar with you.
- hey cheer up fellow leo.. just hang around your going to have lots of fun...and dont be so hard on arch hes an awesome person..all the people here also..they are really nice and you will soon have a good time with us..and no we dont "pity" you we just want to see you have fun when i first came here i wasnt noticed either but after awhile they see u around answering questions..asking questions and they say hello so dont take it personal...and heck i noticed your question and thats a start no? well hope to see you around here often..dont be shy girl :)
- I don't think it is pity, Brooke. That is not my perspective at all. If people see another person feeling kind of down, some people will want to give that person a hug or at least say hi. I think those who have been wanting to add you to their contacts were offering the equivalent of a friendly hug. Why not just be friends. :)
- I have had some people add me to contacts- i won't add strangers to mine. other than that i guess your questions and answers just aren't that great this isn't for making friends- you leave the house for that- This is a place for getting help and helping others
- I don't remember you ever contacting me, but I'm guessing you would prefer friends from your age group. Anyway, just answer more questions and get to know people better. That is the way I did it.
- Hey your a Leo too k My birthday is 15th of August. I'm friendly to everyone accept to people who piss me off i don't bother to reply to them.
- I wasn't mentioned in that list either, I don't mind. That wasn't what that question was about anyway... it was about the first people in this section to come into your mind at the mention of each zodiac sign - since I myself have energy scattered over a quarter of the zodiac, no one can really place me to begin with. Hell, even I couldn't place me under one single zodiac sign! It has nothing to do with you, love, but more likely the fact that you don't hang around here often and not get noticed as much (to be honest, I haven't seen your name before - not that I can recall anyway). You're just overreacting :) *edit* Overreacting is one thing, obviously your reaction came from a series of misunderstandings (you didn't leave your e-mail open to Yvonne, for one... that wasn't her fault and you might simply have not realised it.) But being bitter is a completely different thing. That was definitely uncalled for!
- If it's any consolation, I don't feel sorry for you. You are a Leo. You don't need any pity. Get over it. This is LIFE. **I just looked at the list question(s) for the first time. I took it as asking more or less which people personify each sign. It wasn't really about popularity. At least that's what I thought. I only made it onto half the lists and I have hundreds of BAs and stars too. So what! Who cares! Stop your whining and say something interesting. **re-edit... Marina- Anyone who gave stars and would now like to take them back can reclick the star button to remove their star. I see no point in rewarding bad behavior.
- Unlike Tiacola, I never felt sorry for you---not at first glance, and definitely not by the time I reached the end. I think it's sad that many people felt compelled to add you to their contact list and give you stars for your whiney and rude post. This would not be the way to make friends, and to be honest, I have never once seen you in the horoscope section! And, I will probably avoid any questions I see from you in the future since you may take it as a mercy post or consider me to be doing it out of pity. I think you're crass, and very inconsiderate. Look within. I'm sure Yahoo Answers isn't the only place where you're struggling.
- mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm how do you know if you're out?.... i don't like this question..... you're out if you don't answer, everyone is out if they don't answer or ask....
- What is wrong with you?! I understand when you're ignored yet you complain again when people are nice to you. Get over yourself you big baby!!!!!!!!!
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