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SO the guy i was talking to asked another girl to prom should i cut him off?

okay so me and this guy were talking and he told me that it was like we were praccticlly going out because i was the only girl he was talking too. So he is a senior and we go to diffrent schools his prom is coming up so i figured he would ask me to it . But when i asked him he said he wish he could go to prom but he wsant going to be in town..i though that sucked but didnt think much of it..I was on myspace and saw a bullitin that listed things he was excited for prom was in it!!! So i texted him and asked him he said he invited some girl becuase she didnt have adate i wasked him if he was planning t o tell me and he said he didnt think it was a big deal because its not like him and that girl are talking...and i reasponded to it"yea your rite its not like were talkin either"...he said i was being immature about it...we havent talked in like 4 days..my question is did i over react its not like hes my boyfriend he can do what he wants..but then i donrt think he should ever have led me on. Do i apploigize or what happends now?

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yes cut him off
Don't apologize. Just don't talk to him again.
dont cut him off. Cut IT off. Eat Funyuns.
i think its not clear that the two of you were dating in the first place
yes you should definitely cut him off.
He lied to you. You don't need to talk to a liar. Theres too many other guys out there, find one who doesn't lie to you then forget about you long enough to post about his lie on his myspace. (Seriously.. if he was really into you, he wouldnt have posted that info where you could obviously see it lol)
No you did not over react. If he tells you that you are the only girl he is talking to then why didn't he ask you? Maybe you should ask him that. I don't mean to sound like this but maybe he didn't ask you because he doesn't want people to know he talks to you. You need to get to the bottom of it. But it sounds to me like your young and so you could probably do better than him anyway. Good luck!
of course what are you retarded. why the hell would you apologize. idiot
What you did was right. If he didn't see it as a big deal, than he would tell you! Didn't he tell you he was going out of town? I see him in a lie. He might have only been talking to you, but seems like he's talking to her too.
He was trying to get away with dating both of you at once and thought he could because you and her go to seperate schools and would not meet. But oops, he got caught and now, in order to try and salvage some dignity, he is trying to make you feel as though it's YOUR fault for being "immature." Don't fall for it. He hurt your feelings and he's not even man enough to apologize about it?!!! Forget about this loser, you can do better.
no! you did the right thing your not being immature it is a big deal you dont just take anyone to your prom and he lied to you also.
no i don't think you overreacted at all but if he's gonna say that you're being immature about it then you should talk to him about it.
forget about him
you two aren't together. he doesn't owe you an explantion.
Cut him off- he's leading you on!
Say sorry, move on. He's not your man, you never claimed him, and some cow has snatched him. But ... Serah, serah. Whatever will be, will be. Maybe go to the prom with another guy, make him jelous. On the part about him leading you on: he did. But you were both wrong, and he didn't post this question. Tell him it was a misunderstanding, that you thought he liked you... differently.
you two weren't really dating AND you do go to a different school. YOU SHOULDN'T APOLOGIZE. JUST WRITE HIM OFF. and find someone else who doesn't disappoint you.
just be direct with him. be like "look, are u into me or am i wasting time? i really want stuff to work out between us but if you didnt want me to go to prom with you, all you had to say was "hey..im going with a friend because she asked me and doesn't have a date." lying isn't nessacery." if he says he still cares about you, and apoligizes, keep things going. if he says "whatever" or that he's done than accept it. but i wouldnt be mad at the fact that he's not going with you, i mean, he's trying to help a girl out, so she doesnt have to go alone... i'd be more mad that he lied about it for no reason. hope i helped =]
If you still like him you should hint to him that you're upset/annoyed about the situation, he may not have ment to lead you on though, i know it seems weird but he may have just liked talking to you. Maybe you should keep talking with him and see how it goes, but if he does something like that again you should drop him. Hope I've helped x
Men are like buses...another one will be along any minute. This guy is obviously jerking you around, and I think it's in your best interest to move on and find someone who will treat you right. If you have to question whether someone is cheating or "talking to" other girls, then that's a horrible way to start things out. Move on.
Nope do not apologize unless you are apologizing for liking a player and a dumb a.ss once a player always a player and sweety you got played from the start...and it was easy to play you because you did not go to his school...And no you did not over react if you are talking to him you should be his prom date...listen to the taylor swift song Fifteen boys have been playing this game with girls for years....I have seen it so many times it amazes me girls fall for it over and over again.
walk away you desever better or he just messed up and if you want to talk to him you can but dont apoligize say hey lok you led me on and i like you and you said you like me so if your not gonna ask me out bye bye bets of luck
You shouldn't have to apologize for anything. If that guy is so blind to take another girl who he doesn't know to something that is as important as his last prom, don't feel bad for the way you said that! I really liked the way you worded that..."yea your rite its not like were talkin either". He should have known to at least consider you! Sounds like he blew you off because he told you he wasn't going but then you found out through myspace. You are not immature for saying that or thinking that, in fact, you are mature FOR saying it. What an azz. I think he is in to some other girl now because it is his final year and he already knows you and so he wants to try to start something with someone else and if it doesn't work, then you are the rebound. F*ck that guy! just not literally, he wouldn't know how to use it.
wow everyones saying to cut it off but really maybe he didnt mean anything by it since yall wernt officially going out. just talk to him about it for a few minutes, see what he has to say and if he seems sincere about it then appologize and give it another change and if not cut it off
duhh
you have every right to be hurt and upset, but the point is yall arnt going out. i would txt him and be like "i overreacted and im sorry, i could've handled this better." and let him see your being mature and he may even apolpgize too. and yes of course being upset is ok. just work it out with him. it's not worth giving up a great friendship or even a boyfriend:)
can i ask why you gotta apologize....sweety you dont have to apologize. the one that needs to apologize is him. and if you guys havent talked for four days and he hasnt kalled. obviously he does not care at all. he wus just playin wit yur mind. trying to string you along. he didnt want nothin serious. REMEMBER what he said. ITS LIKE WE'RE GOIN OUT. its like?? wtf. you need a guy who really wants to claim you and doesnt say its like we goin out. you need someone you tell you yea your my gurl and im taking you to prom. he sounds so immature and doesnt even know what he wants. CUT HIM OFF. better right now that your not too in love wit him den later. you'll be in love and is gonna be harder to leave. so yeah. cut him off. and you didnt over react. he just trying to do riverse psychology on you. which means trying to put the blame on you since he got caught in his lie. WHAT A JEERK.!! and first of all if you the only gurl talkin to him. he shud take you. and not care about any other gurl. so i hope this helped. =]