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Prom anxieties - Am I a complete bitch?

So this guy asked me to prom, and I said "maybe." He kept pushing me, saying, "I need to know by today," and things like that, and I said I'd probably go with him. (I really have no idea what I was thinking - I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I don't have a date yet, so I guess I was feeling crazy in desperation.) He's been telling everybody that I'm his date, and I've cringed every time somebody I don't know coming up to me saying, "Are you really going with him?" I've known him for a long time, but I don't want to be his date AT ALL. He has this horrible reputation for being the most terrifying dancer in the world - he pretty much humps girls on the dance floor. I don't like his personality, and I think if I do end up going with him, I'll just spend the evening with other people. It's not like he really likes me or anything - apparently he has this list of girls he wanted to ask to prom. He knows that I like another guy - is it awful if I find this guy another date and ask the guy I like to prom? Should I just skip out on prom and go to the after prom party with the guy I do like? Or should I just grin and bear it? I'm going with someone I actually do like to the after prom party, but he's not going to prom. I wanted to ask him, but I wasn't thinking about prom at all, and this other guy caught me completely off guard.

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1. noo definitely not, your not a bitch. but just remember the thing about prom is you go with someone, and go home with someone else. my best advice is that he knows, he's aware, but you are in a little too deep at this point. i don't think he takes it seriously, and if he does, its okay to ignoring. literally, you said you'd "GO" with him.. not spend all the time there with him.