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I have freinds.....but i dont?

i have been at uni since september and i'm in my first year. i know lots of people however it feels like i dont have a good freind, if everyone i knew listed their top 10 freinds i would not be in them, i normally enjoy myself but then i find it hard to communticate with people even if i have known then from the first couple of weeks. It has always been hard for me to make a group of freinds, and i always see people who are really freindly with one another and want to hang around and have fun together alot, but it feels like no one wants to do that with me, i am nice and freindly and funny sometimes, i just find it hard to make good freinds. or maybe its my imagination?

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1. some people find it easy to make friends, but not good ones. with all those friends u have choose a couple and hang out with them more. then u'll make a better relationship with them good luck<3
2. I'll be your friend "..." DT
3. you are who you are darling.sometimes it pays off to be your type and not get into all sorts of trouble.just make sure you do the right thing around pple and that way you don't have to feel guilty about having offended anyone.
4. friend* and You will find one very soon. Everyone does. Choose a person that is nice and is struggling also.
5. You'd be surprised to find out how many people are in your exact spot. The truth about friends is: they come and go. So even if these people are the best of friends right now, they may not even talk in a year or two. But same goes for yourself: even though you don't have any close buddies right now doesn't mean you're destined for loneliness. You seem like a nice person, there's bound to be thousands, maybe millions of people just like you in the world who would LOVE to have a friend like you. You're a gem. Don't let your lack of current close friends get you down. Seriously. Everything will all pan out.
6. same here. i have a bunch of friends but none that are really close. i c a bunch of close friends hanging and having a really good time. being really outgoing n stuff. its like, how come i cant b like that? but when i am outgoing and friendly ppl look at me wierd. like ill try to make small talk. but ppl just look at me like " i dont kno u" or the only thing they can say is "really, wow, yea" it gets annoying. so i just stay to myself. then ppl ask me " how come u dont talk much". well maybe because everytime i try to talk to someone they never say anything back.
7. i know what u mean o have "friends" but they arnt realy my good friends they are more like "friend -aquantinces" i suggest joinging a club. people are realy nice and FRIENDly there, you could use it to ur advantage. ..also when talking to people just casually add in a "we sooo need to do hangouts soon" or something like that..see how they respond.
8. i feel the same way...i have close friends...but they're like never there...like i might feel lonely or something......but they dont know...but what i do is try to forget about it...and later on in the day...after school....i go on yahoo answers and it makes me feel much better....i THINK i'm moving next year so i dont make a big deal about it, but i dont know, if its a definite moving decision....omg...i started talking about myself...sorry about that....what i meant to say...yes it is hard to make friends....but the thing is that if they dont like you for what you are then they're not worth it...and if you really need a friend...i'll be your friend...tc..♥
9. to be honest, when i was at uni, i didnt really have many friends. no one bothered to talk to me, i tried to be friendly but it was like do i know u. some ppl didnt seem interested in me, and i found it hard. i only made friends with one girl. i wasnt that bothered, i was there to do my work and get high grades, not lark about with so called friends. maybe you should focus on your work. afterall, that is what your there for.
10. i feel like that a little bit with uni too. luckily i live at home so still have close friends here so its nothing major for me, but most of my other friends have really close friends from uni too. most of my friends seem more concerned with sleeping and getting drunk at uni than doing stuff together... i think you'll work it out though, you seem sweet to me x
11. I have friends too, but I don't. When I was in middle school, I had friends. Kids my age whom I liked to hang out and have fun with. When I got into highschool, I thought, "Hey, I'll have even more friends!" But more friends just brought drama, and alot of misunderstandings... The point is, sometimes it's good to have to time to yourself, to have your space, and your time.