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confused :S what do you think?

Ok basically there this guys i REALLY like, its being going on for ages, about a year!? but we've got a lot closer and talk quite a bit, I was like 90% sure he liked me aswell, he complimented me a lot, and I heard him say to people he liked me, his friends suddenly started talking to me, and I know it sounds stupid but its like we have a "connection" we fitted so well together. So it gets towards the end of term nothings happened, through exams we didnt talk so much, but i caught him looking at me during an exam and he said hi to me a couple of times...so im thinking ok ...prom night i've gotta make a move.. during that time he writes something on facebook about 'shes moved on :( ' as far as I knew he hadn't got/ had a girlfriend for as long as I'd liked him...so he keeps writing all these depressing statuses :S and then suddenly he writes one, 'cant be bothered with you no more so f*** you' I know he'd had a big fight with some of his friends, but could he be talking about me? he deletes the other status about 'shes moved on' at the same time as he writes the other one? I spoke to my friend about it and she said she'd heard rumours he'd been out with this other girl but ages ago, i have her as a friend on facebook and I remember he did aswell, but shes not on his friends list anymore.. prom night..was amazing and awful all at the same time, he completely blanks me for most of the night, I see him talking to loads of girls, whispering in there ears, he says hi once and talks to me a bit, he says proms crap theres nohing to do, and i say he should dance and then literally 5 seconds later he starts dancing with my best mate!? making a move on her, and asking for her number, he dances with another of my friends aswell, and quite a few other girls! Now im thinking I probably should have talked to him more but the way he was acting!? I'm worried he thinks I don't like him because I didn't talk to him, and through exams as well but there just weren't any good opportunities he's always with his mates which is just itimidating because im shy! So guys help me please!!! :S im so confused!! whats your interpretations? thanks :)

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1. You need to talk to him alone to ascertain what exactly he feels for you, to find out his true feelings, if there are any that is. Otherwise you will forever wonder why he is behaving in this way, though he was clearly trying to make you jealous on your prom night, maybe hoping to get a reaction from you. I think he likes you, from what you have said here, but guys can be simple creatures and don't see what's staring them in the face! Once you make it clear, I hope that he stops playing silly games and asks you out on a date, good luck!